So sad.., why my relationships always fail?

[billion]

I'm so sad, why my relationships always fail?

 

I'm 36, financially independent, cute, fun and seems to attract guys.

I have had relationships with guys in my 20s and 30s that I really liked and wanted to build something serious with them (after a year).. But this need always make them drift away at some point and I end up alone....

The same scenario is happening now with my boyfriend who is 40 and I'm devastated right now...

 

Why does this happen.. I feel helpless..

 

I have plenty of hobbies and interest. I'm a very active person.. And would also love to marry and have kids..

[mike588]

I'm so sad, why my relationships always fail?

 

I'm 36, financially independent, cute, fun and seems to attract guys.

I have had relationships with guys in my 20s and 30s that I really liked and wanted to build something serious with them (after a year).. But this need always make them drift away at some point and I end up alone....

The same scenario is happening now with my boyfriend who is 40 and I'm devastated right now...

 

Why does this happen.. I feel helpless..

 

I have plenty of hobbies and interest. I'm a very active person.. And would also love to marry and have kids..

 

I guess you just haven't met the right guy. I'm not trying to be funny or anything but is your sex drive ok....you know how we men are!

 

Do you come on to strong? are you talking about getting married and having kids to soon and it scares them off?

 

What if any has any of the guys told you why they dumped you?

 

You sound great..

[billion]

My sex drive is normal I think.. Maybe guys initiated sex more than I did but was 95 % in a mood to get into it. We had sex regularly.

 

Guys have proposed to me before I was 25.. 3 times.. But I was not ready.. After that, when I was, they seemed to disappear.. Maybe they are feeling my eagerness? I try not to go too strong.. But at some point I might have ask direct questions.. In order to see if there was compatibility...