Girl who I haven't talked to all week thought she could call tonight and ask to meet?

[PhillyDude]

This girl I met online has not called me or text me since Tuesday and today she calls me at 6pm and thinks I;m supposed to just jump up and get dressed and go to meet her just like that?-lol In all honesty ladies, would you go out with a guy who had not called or text you since Tuesday and all of sudden he wanted to meet you tonight?

 

 

She was clearly out of her mind if she thought I was leaving this apartment on such short notice.

[ditzchic]

Based on the threads you start here I've come to the conclusion you are either a troll or the most undateable man on the planet.

 

Seriously guy, you should thanking your lucky stars anyone is even giving you the tine of day with your blatant attitude problems.

[Mme. Chaucer]

Yeah! That'll teach her! You stay in your apartment and think of how she's suffering!

[PhillyDude]

Based on the threads you start here I've come to the conclusion you are either a troll or the most undateable man on the planet.

 

Seriously guy, you should thanking your lucky stars anyone is even giving you the tine of day with your blatant attitude problems.

 

So you would let a guy call you on such short notice???????

[johan]

This girl I met online has not called me or text me since Tuesday and today she calls me at 6pm and thinks I;m supposed to just jump up and get dressed and go to meet her just like that?-lol In all honesty ladies, would you go out with a guy who had not called or text you since Tuesday and all of sudden he wanted to meet you tonight?

 

 

She was clearly out of her mind if she thought I was leaving this apartment on such short notice.

 

What an idiot.

[PhillyDude]

What an idiot.

 

Stop replying to my threads before you get reported

[ditzchic]

So you would let a guy call you on such short notice???????

 

If I didn't already have plans,didn't dislike the guy and it fit in my schedule sure I'd go out with him. Tuesday was 5 days ago. That's not that big of a deal. People get busy. Stuff happens. I don't expect anyone else's world to revolve around me.

[dasein]

Lawlz, if OP were a woman, he would be warned off by posters here from responding to such disrespect. Don't even pretend this isn't the case.

[PhillyDude]

If I didn't already have plans,didn't dislike the guy and it fit in my schedule sure I'd go out with him. Tuesday was 5 days ago. That's not that big of a deal. People get busy. Stuff happens. I don't expect anyone else's world to revolve around me.

 

Keep in mind I'm talking about a 1st meet and greet not someone I already know. I would have to shave and figure out what to wear and I didn't feel like going through all that tonight. I told her I need 24 hrs notice

[jobaba]

This girl I met online has not called me or text me since Tuesday and today she calls me at 6pm and thinks I;m supposed to just jump up and get dressed and go to meet her just like that?-lol In all honesty ladies, would you go out with a guy who had not called or text you since Tuesday and all of sudden he wanted to meet you tonight?

 

 

She was clearly out of her mind if she thought I was leaving this apartment on such short notice.

 

You sound like a chick man.

 

You have the chance to go out on the town and at least have some casual fun with a woman, but are instead on LS doing a play by play on game playing, and losing the upper hand?

 

Go out and meet her.

[johan]

Stop replying to my threads before you get reported

 

You must have thought I was talking about you.

 

Oops!

[Mme. Chaucer]

Stop replying to my threads before you get reported

 

He was agreeing with you, brah! He has your back!

[dasein]

Go out and meet her.

 

No way would I go out and meet her. I would go out and spend the time meeting others though.

 

Have had this issue myself doing OLD. Was trying to get something set up with a doctor (a dermatologist, not exactly an ER doc on 24 hour call) who was admittedly busy. I was working 80 hour weeks at the time myself though, yet still had time to date by managing my schedule. Could never set up a date with her, but would get texts, "can you go out now?" One of the times I could have, but... hell no! What a red flag. If someone can't set up and stick to a social schedule, they shouldn't be dating at all, and that is only a foreboding of the kinds of relationship problems involved with dating such a person.

 

I honestly can't believe the heat OP is getting.

[PhillyDude]

You sound like a chick man.

 

You have the chance to go out on the town and at least have some casual fun with a woman, but are instead on LS doing a play by play on game playing, and losing the upper hand?

 

Go out and meet her.

 

If she wanted me to come to her place or come here then yes. I'm not in the mood to go out on the town on a saturday night.

[ditzchic]

Keep in mind I'm talking about a 1st meet and greet not someone I already know. I would have to shave and figure out what to wear and I didn't feel like going through all that tonight. I told her I need 24 hrs notice

 

That's all well and good. If you don't want to go cuz you feel rushed, don't go. I doubt she cares too much though since she asked on a whim she probably isn't too invested in it anyway. I just don't see why it's such a huge deal that you're going to point out here how ridic it is that she asked you to hang out.

 

She asked. You answered. Done deal. What's the problem?

[PhillyDude]

You must have thought I was talking about you.

 

Oops!

 

Oh ok, my fault. I thought you were attacking me

[PhillyDude]

That's all well and good. If you don't want to go cuz you feel rushed, don't go. I doubt she cares too much though since she asked on a whim she probably isn't too invested in it anyway. I just don't see why it's such a huge deal that you're going to point out here how ridic it is that she asked you to hang out.

 

She asked. You answered. Done deal. What's the problem?

 

Because I believe that most women would never agree to go if the tables were flipped. I'm just pointing out the difference between men and women. Hell most women don't even answer their on phone on Friday night-lol

[Mme. Chaucer]

So, do you make decisions about what you are going to do based upon what you think women do?

 

Frankly, it was not a "typical female" move for a girl who has never met you to call you at 6:00 on Saturday night and ask you out.

 

Whatever.

[PhillyDude]

So, do you make decisions about what you are going to do based upon what you think women do?

 

Frankly, it was not a "typical female" move for a girl who has never met you to call you at 6:00 on Saturday night and ask you out.

 

Whatever.

 

 

Woman have done this before and said things like.."I;m in your area and was wondering if you wanted to meet up"

 

NO!!!!

[Mme. Chaucer]

Okay, okay! I'm fine with you staying in your apartment on Saturday night rather than giving this entitled wench the privilege of a fun and enchanting evening with you, which she so clearly doesn't deserve.

 

What's for dinner?

[ditzchic]

Because I believe that most women would never agree to go if the tables were flipped. I'm just pointing out the difference between men and women. Hell most women don't even answer their on phone on Friday night-lol

 

I fail to see what any of this has to do with anything. Unless you made a mistake when entering your user name, you're a dude right?

 

Do you really make all your decisions based on what a woman would do?

If that's the case:

Go make me a sandwich, b*ch! I'm hungry! And I said NO MAYO!

[2sunny]

If she wanted me to come to her place or come here then yes. I'm not in the mood to go out on the town on a saturday night.

 

Because I believe that most women would never agree to go if the tables were flipped. I'm just pointing out the difference between men and women. Hell most women don't even answer their on phone on Friday night-lol

 

 

Nah - its that you only want to see her if you know she gonna give you sex... Hence her place or yours.

 

Be honest, you only want to make as little effort necessary to get sex.

[ditzchic]

Okay, okay! I'm fine with you staying in your apartment on Saturday night rather than giving this entitled wench the privilege of a fun and enchanting evening with you, which she so clearly doesn't deserve.

 

What's for dinner?

 

We are so on the same page right now. High fives!

[PhillyDude]

I fail to see what any of this has to do with anything. Unless you made a mistake when entering your user name, you're a dude right?

 

Do you really make all your decisions based on what a woman would do?

If that's the case:

Go make me a sandwich, b*ch! I'm hungry! And I said NO MAYO!

 

That was kind of HOT maybe we should meet when you come to philly:)

[PhillyDude]

Okay, okay! I'm fine with you staying in your apartment on Saturday night rather than giving this entitled wench the privilege of a fun and enchanting evening with you, which she so clearly doesn't deserve.

 

What's for dinner?

 

Haven't decided yet, either steak Fajita's or chicken nuggets and potato skins