starla33 Posted March 10, 2012 Posted March 10, 2012 I'm starting to wonder if I should stop online dating. I get tons of dates (am attractive and outgoing, you know the usual that men look for in a partner). It just seems to me that either: A: I go on a date and there is no spark. or B: Date goes well. We go on more dates, but the guy still stays very active on the dating site and is on there constantly looking for something better and better. This is 2 months in usually if we make it that far. I honestly can't deal with this and I don't treat people I like this way. I know this is how online dating is, but is there something I can put in my profile to weed out these guys? I know there are people like me out there that when they like someone at least try to give them a chance and not keep looking.
Bob_Funk Posted March 10, 2012 Posted March 10, 2012 (edited) Either stick to guys in your league or keep getting played. Pick your poison. Edited March 10, 2012 by Bob_Funk Typo
Author starla33 Posted March 10, 2012 Author Posted March 10, 2012 Either stick to guys in your league or keep getting played. Pick your poison. I avoid the overly hot model looking guys, but thanks for the tip.
FitChick Posted March 10, 2012 Posted March 10, 2012 I know this is how online dating is, but is there something I can put in my profile to weed out these guys? No. They won't read it or will pretend to be the man you are looking for. The less said about the type of man you want, the better. That way they will reveal more about themselves so you can decide. 1
PhillyDude Posted March 10, 2012 Posted March 10, 2012 There is no WEEDING OUT-lol Why do so many women think there is this WEEDING OUT method that will work.
Author starla33 Posted March 11, 2012 Author Posted March 11, 2012 I don't get what is so wrong with not wanting to date someone that after 3-4 dates is still seeing and/or sleeping with other people. That just grosses me out
PhillyDude Posted March 11, 2012 Posted March 11, 2012 I don't get what is so wrong with not wanting to date someone that after 3-4 dates is still seeing and/or sleeping with other people. That just grosses me out After 3 or 4 dates, someone is always going to still seeing and sleeping with other people
Author starla33 Posted March 11, 2012 Author Posted March 11, 2012 Good for them. I don't want to sleep with a guy that is sleeping with other people.
PhillyDude Posted March 11, 2012 Posted March 11, 2012 Good for them. I don't want to sleep with a guy that is sleeping with other people. How would you know?-lol Not like he is going to tell you, come on now
Author starla33 Posted March 11, 2012 Author Posted March 11, 2012 How would you know?-lol Not like he is going to tell you, come on now Actually most guys I date lately are pretty honest. I'm pretty good at seeing the red flags early on...oh and I don't put out on the 3rd date so that helps weed the dbags out.
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