krissy1989f Posted March 10, 2012 Posted March 10, 2012 Ok, so I have wrote on here before about a little issue i was having and now that i have all my thoughts put together i feel i can think more logically, but still asking for opinions To sum it up i was seeing this guy for 6 months...nothing serious he said he didn't even have time for a gf so basically we just really liked each other, saw each other maybe once a week and hooked up...sort of like a FWB situation even though i did want more but was dumb and just settled. Anyways, on New Years he didnt even ask to see me which really made me realize it wasnt anything...I made a mistake and I ended up hooking up with someone else that nite and felt HORRIBLE about it. I did tell him because I know he is a good guy and deserved to know because somehow to me it felt like cheating although technically it wasnt.... He wasnt happy about it and we stopped hanging out and everything for about 2 months now... I dated other guys but cant seem to get him off my mind so I gave up with the dating for now. Anyways, the guy this post is about recently started to contact me and we even hang out again (no hooking up though) and its just really nice...almost like nothing happened, and i recently moved an hour away and he has driven out here to see me. My question is should I continue to do this without asking him where its going? I'm done with the games and really want to settle down, I'm 22 years old and all this dating and hooking up is just getting old to me... I do have feelings for him still and would love to finally start something real but I feel like I've already ruined my chance... is that crazy of me to think? Idk someone let me know what they think!! thanks..
Feelin Frisky Posted March 10, 2012 Posted March 10, 2012 Sorry, I just can't get passed your use of the term "hooking up". Other than it sounding vulgar, it's not very communicative of what you really mean. I'd like to help and don't mean to criticize.
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