Will she realize what she lost? will she be back?

[johnny fidel]

hi i am johnny i am from italy

i wish that anyone can help me

i am student in medical university i meet a girl when i was in first course and she was in the in first course too it was before 6 years ago

i loved that girl and she loved me

that girl from poor family she could not pay money to university so she left the university

but i payed to the university so as to she back

we started meet she started to like me and i was the most happiest person in the world when she said that she likes me

but i saw sadness on her face because she was poor she could not wear clothes like girls in our university

after 3 months she said that she loves me i waited long long time dreaming about this moment

i started buy her clothes every 3 months some time every 2 months i started buy jewelry every festival and i started to give her money every month about 300 $

i did all that because i wanted to make her happiest girl i did want to see her sad

if she cry i cry if she smile i smile

i helped her family to open business shop

our story started 4 years ago

i did not say to her (NO) never. anything she want i do

if she need money i borrow money from my friends …..

after all….. she started fighting for no reason but i keep it hush so as not make thing more uncomfortable after that she said that she needed space !!!!

i give her space but my friends said that they saw her with Another Guy ….. i shocked ,,,, i called her she did not answer my calls for 2 weeks i called her mother her mother said to me STAY AWAY FROM HER ,,,,,,,,,

i called her again but no answer!!!!!!!

all my friends said that the saw her with Another Guy ,,,,, that guy is the son of our professor of surgery

when my friends said that i did not call again for 2 months …. after that she called and she cry and shy asked to f forgive she asked money i give her so as to know if she using me

after that i called her many times she did not answer one time i saw her with this guy so i went after them and i said to her to look at me she said that she love him i spit on her face and i Hit the guy

his father our professor called me and he said that i have to apologize from his son and from the girl that i love because she is his girl friend or he will expel me from the university i said to him no i will apologize only from your son ,,,,,,he accept that

that was for 4 months ago

now i am hopeless without her

i cant move on i cant forget her

will she realize what she lost?

Will She Be Back?

i sorry about that long story

but i need help please

[blotter]

No one can use you unless you let them use you. I think spitting in her face and assaulting her new boyfriend probably ended your chances, but who knows some girls like that stuff.

Edited March 10, 2012 by blotter

[xztjohn]

sounds pretty bad. u really need to focus on yourself get rid of the hope she aint coming back. u need tocomplete your degree be stable and reach your goals. at a certain point you wouldnt want her back. when you achieve the important things like your profession, everything else will fall into place

[rAFC]

NEVER NEVER NEVER give a woman money who is not your wife! You will only end up getting used!

 

If you are very lucky, she will not come back. I know that you are hurting right now, but you are much better off without this one. You WILL find a better woman, I promise you this, but not until you let this one go!

 

For future reference, if a woman requires money to be with you, she is not the kind of woman you should fall in love with.

[69ways]

well of what I read, she saw the son of the professor a good chance to get to better places compared to you.

This type of women go forth in life and are successful but most likely not happy as the first priority is how to get more and achieve more and not their emotional bond with a guy.

 

Honestly m8, you need to stay away from her and you should consider yourself lucky , as she actually did you a favour........

[stu1234]

I once read on here someone say:

 

"A relationship is about two people that compliment eachother, not one who supplements the other"

 

I think for all that you offer her(especially financially) it may be that she just doesn't quite offer you enough in return.

[darkmoon]

you will see someone else you fancy sooner or later

she might be back, but you might meet someone else in the meantime