heatherfeather Posted March 10, 2012 Posted March 10, 2012 Currently I am doing NC with my ex who broke up with me alittle over a week ago. We both still have each other's stuff. Do I get my stuff back now and redo the no contact or just wait till NC is over...how long is that anyways?
Numb79 Posted March 10, 2012 Posted March 10, 2012 If it is something that you can live without... I would say don't even bother with it. If there are things that he wants back from you, then he will contact you. Here is what my X said to me. She said she is in no position to tell me what to do with her things. So basically, she left the ball in my court. I did indeed end up sending her things back to her... got a thank you text and that was the last I have ever heard of her. There is no time limit on NC. It is not a game. It is tool that helps you get the other person out of your system or time apart to reconcile differences. But you can't put a time frame on it. Best of Luck! 1
Philosoraptor Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 Go through everything with a fine tooth comb to make sure nothing she owns is left. Put everything you find in a box and drop it at her place when she isn't home. 1
BewitchedandBothered Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 Currently I am doing NC with my ex who broke up with me alittle over a week ago. We both still have each other's stuff. Do I get my stuff back now and redo the no contact or just wait till NC is over...how long is that anyways? Ship it and be done with it.
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