IrishCharm Posted March 10, 2012 Posted March 10, 2012 (edited) Hi guys i joined this forum because i just can't stand feeling alone most of my life. I am have never had a long term relationship and its been months since i last kissed a girl. I am 30 years of age and it feels like no girl will ever want to date me. I'm actually not a bad looking guy, I make a decent income, I live alone, I work out most days and have a body i am very proud but when i go out to bars with my friends, they usually go off chatting to women. They are not really the social type of guys as they just prefer to chat up women and visit at least 5 different bars in one night to check out the talent available. There are times i feel uncomfortable going out with them, aside from that i enjoy there company but i'd like to be able to feel comfortable chatting up a girl in a bar without feeling like a complete tool. But even in bars and clubs it is hard to find a nice girl because some of them can be so bitchy because when i do try to talk to them they either say very little or completely ignore you like you are not even there. I'm usually confident around people i know and they enjoy my company but women scare me and i know it shouldn't feel this way but they do. I can barely make eye contact with women. My thoughts are messed up and i really need to solve this problem as it is making me feel worse. Edited March 10, 2012 by IrishCharm
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