TheDingo Posted March 10, 2012 Posted March 10, 2012 cheating on an ex gf once. This was already long ago and I've posted about it. My ex gf caught me, we tried working it out but later on she got back at me having having an emotional affair (cybering and writing him sexual context online) and so we broke up. The update to my present situation: I'm still with my current gf and by mid April it will be our 2nd year of being exclusive. She still haven't asked if I ever cheated. If she were to ask I will tell her yes. But what if she asked for more details? I don't want to tell her about how I got caught.
baguette Posted March 10, 2012 Posted March 10, 2012 You're not obligated to tell her unless she asks. If she does, you can be vague about it but should provide her with enough detail so that it doesn't seem like you're hiding anything. Giving her too much detail can make her paranoid and can be destructive to your relationship. Make sure, however, that she knows you're remorseful for what you did and what you learned from it.
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