Aussieangel Posted March 10, 2012 Posted March 10, 2012 First off hello I am brand new here. I have been separated from my husband for 6 months and 2 days. We had only been married 2 years. When we first met it was like a fairy tale romance... I was so so so happy!! But then after we got married it all changed....he stopped putting any effort in because he "had" me now. I am a very bubbly positive person and he became so negative and never seemed to want me to be happy. He would yell and snap at me for no reason at all and then yell at me for crying. I have felt so free and happy since we seperated and he went back to the uk to live. I live going out and getting male attention again ( my husband never complimented me) and I have a very happy life...except I actually really miss him I miss the old him....my best friend....the person who I loved and who loved me.... I am scared I may never find that again or it will not be as good as it was at first with my husband. I am so sad that at 28 I was seperated I am 29 now... 30 this year...it is scary I am alomst 30 with no one to love and no children. Sorry I know this was a whole heap of rubbish but it was good to get out Xx
tojaz Posted March 10, 2012 Posted March 10, 2012 Welcome Aussie, and it is not rubbish at all. In fact it is a sad tale that is repeated far too often here. I too was only married for 2 years after a very long time of very happy cohabitation. Marriage often creates two extremes, on one end there is those that lose themselves to the marriage, slowly suffocated by those marital duties that used to be loving gestures. On the other end of the spectrum there are those that see the race as being run and see marriage as a payoff for a lot of "hard work".Marriage takes balance and for many that is hard to achieve. I'm sorry you have to go through this Aussie, but be lucky you have found LS there is a lot of help and knowledge here, and even more support. Keep posting, TOJAZ
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