mymission Posted March 10, 2012 Posted March 10, 2012 I called him. I shouldn't have done it. I basically text him last night when I was drunk asking if he missed me. So I called him today to apologise. But the conversation was horrilble. He said we'll never get back together, we don't match. And he opened up some old wounds from the relationship. Its been 4 weeks since the breakup and I feel like I'm on day one. It weird though even though he was saying all this stuff, he asked me if I'd kissed anybody since we split up. And I fell out with one of my guy friends about a year ago, but he sent me a message apologising so we're friends again. And my ex had heard on the grapevine that we were friends and he was asking about it. So obviously he still cares enough to be jealous which is slightly re-assuring. I didn't think he was feeling anything about the breakup. But I basically poured my heart out and it was a MAJOR rejection. Back to square one.
freetolove Posted March 10, 2012 Posted March 10, 2012 We all make mistakes, it's okay, forgive yourself. =)
TaraMaiden Posted March 10, 2012 Posted March 10, 2012 Sunrise means it's another day, and a new one at that. It's a new day during which we can see the past, but not go there, because it no longer exists. so rather than hanker for something intangible, unchangeable and full of risky pitfalls, consider that as the sun rises, you have all of the day to reflect on how lovely it is to breathe, smile and put yet another 24 hours between you and what held you back. go looking for pleasant circumstance. Tell yourself you will perform three, small, random, minor acts of kindness, for complete strangers, and go see the ducks on the duckpond, and bring thm some bread while you're at it. and every day, tell yourself this: "My heart was whole when you were not in my life. Now you're not in my life again, my heart will heal, because i will make sure it does." Every day, your fractured heart gets a little better. do yourself a favour, and don't rip the stitches out. why do that to yourself? 1
jus d'orange Posted March 10, 2012 Posted March 10, 2012 Don't worry about "back to square 1." Just think about the future and what you're doing today, tomorrow, and with the rest of your life. WITHOUT him.
g450 Posted March 11, 2012 Posted March 11, 2012 Try to just forget him. I will take time know. But it's not about going back to square1. It's about getting back to square YOU. That's all that really matters right now.
69ways Posted March 11, 2012 Posted March 11, 2012 I called him. I shouldn't have done it. I basically text him last night when I was drunk asking if he missed me. So I called him today to apologise. But the conversation was horrilble. He said we'll never get back together, we don't match. And he opened up some old wounds from the relationship. Its been 4 weeks since the breakup and I feel like I'm on day one. It weird though even though he was saying all this stuff, he asked me if I'd kissed anybody since we split up. And I fell out with one of my guy friends about a year ago, but he sent me a message apologising so we're friends again. And my ex had heard on the grapevine that we were friends and he was asking about it. So obviously he still cares enough to be jealous which is slightly re-assuring. I didn't think he was feeling anything about the breakup. But I basically poured my heart out and it was a MAJOR rejection. Back to square one. My ex left me 14 months ago, she said the same things, we were engaged and was going to get married.5 years together. She said we are sexually incompatible, she will not be back, she does not love me. So 14 months later and after her not managing to stay away for more than 2 months, she started saying she is not sure she made the right decision and she things of me and it feels not right to date other guys but needs her time before we can talk about us. So what I ma trying to say, ignore what he is saying, he is bitterer and pissed off. Concentrate on taking care of you and time will show....
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