sweetlovinghoney Posted March 10, 2012 Posted March 10, 2012 I broke up with this guy back in April. After we broke up, he seemed hurt (in my opinion). When he saw me he would barely say hi to me and would hardly even look at me. He hardly acknowledged me. We had no contact, after that. About three months later, I admitted that I missed him (in a message) but he never replied to it. After that message was sent, I noticed a difference in his actions. He started saying hi to me when he saw me, he was polite, and he even tried to make small talk when he got the chance to. There have been a couple of times, where he's proven to remember things about me that I don't even remember telling him but that are true. He has also asked about things that concern me. For example, a few weeks ago, we saw each other and he made small talk by asking me how my classes were going. I told him they were good and he asked if there wasn't anything regarding school that I hated at the moment because he knows that at one point while I was with him, I really struggled with my classes and it was discouraging to me. I'm in college, by the way. We don't go to school together but, we do live in the same area. After that bit of small talk, we were both headed in different directions and as we were going our separate ways, he said "Have a good day, baby". I felt like he was using the word "baby" lightly but, given our history it seemed a bit odd to me for him to be using that word. Anyway at times, he also seems to go out of his way to be nice to me. For example, about two weeks ago (which was the last time I saw him) we were exiting the same building and when he noticed that I was walking right behind him (well, about 5 feet away from him) he returned to the door that he had just passed, to hold it open for me. When I thanked him for holding the door open, the first thing he did was compliment me on the sweatshirt I was wearing and made small talk about the team that was on the sweatshirt. He said that they were a team worth watching and when I said that I have always liked them, he responded with "I know". Sometimes, I think that he might still like me (based on his actions) but, other times I'm not so sure and I figure that he's just being the nice guy that he is. What do you guys think?
Ajax Posted March 10, 2012 Posted March 10, 2012 I don't think there's any way to know for sure if he "likes" you unless he tells you. My question is, do you want him to still like you? What would you do if he did? What would you do if he didn't?
flowerlove Posted March 10, 2012 Posted March 10, 2012 I agree with the user above me in that there's no sure way to know unless he himself tells you so but you came here asking for an opinion so, I'm going to give you mine. I think there's a possibility that he still likes you but isn't sure about whether he should let you know that he still does or not.
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