Follower Posted March 10, 2012 Posted March 10, 2012 So its been 3 months and 2 days since my ex-fiance left and i think im moving on but i have this great fear that she is going to suddenly re-appear in my life and i honestly dont know how i would handle it which is making me very confused about everything. Im not sure ofc but i think i have this huge fear because she holds all the cards in this regard. She has me blocked on face book along with everyone she has known with me, she moved home with her parents some 300+ miles away, i no longer have her number and havent since i went NC. I just dont know how to shake that fear of her contacting me and i dont know if i want to let it go because i think im more scared of getting over it and her contacting me than me having this fear and her actualy contacting me... I bet none of that makes sense but any advice and what to do would be great.
RonChalant Posted March 10, 2012 Posted March 10, 2012 Your fear is warranted believe me. When your fully over her and with someone else she will randomly contact you. I am in the same boat more less so I understand. We can always say how we will act when it happens, but we really won't know how we will respond until it happens. The fact that you were engaged is all the more reason she will get in contact with you at some point in the future. Knowing that, try to forget about it and just live your life. Easier said that done believe me I know. Aside from the drunk text I sent last night (lol) which was more about missing my dog than anything, I haven't seen my ex fiance more less in 3.5 months as well. I'm "moving on" even though I'm currently in a rebound relationship and things are decent. Do you think about your ex on a regular basis?
Author Follower Posted March 10, 2012 Author Posted March 10, 2012 Unfortunatly i think about her 24/7. Its rough but im trying to get my life back on track. I dont even know if its a fear more than me wanting her to contact me, i dont know its all very confusing to be honest....
Mr Scorpio Posted March 10, 2012 Posted March 10, 2012 As with most matters of the heart, this sort of thing is complicated. Part of you may want her to contact you because it means that she cares enough to check-in. Part of you may not want her to contact you out of fear of what she would say -- or what you would do in response. IMO, you should assume that you will never hear from her again. If/when she does, that is when you deal with how to respond.
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