Turkishdelight573 Posted March 10, 2012 Posted March 10, 2012 Me and my boyfriend has been in a relationship for 10 months now, and at first like other relationship it was all peaches and cream. At first he would always want me around and he would always fond time to call me just to see how i was during the day. After a while he went through a phase that he lost all of his friend and he needed me more than ever which i will always be there for him when he was down and sad and lonely. After he met new friends, i am now completely out the window, i feel second to everything and i know that it made me really emotional and needy. In my defense i never stop him going out with his friends, i like it that he has friends, i have my own! but the fact that he never finds time for me and that everything is about his new friend really makes me feel like I'm used. When I'm lonely and sad and need him it doesn't seem like i get as much support. He also has a xanax addiction and he is going to the doctors to wing it out and trying to get clean but it makes him moody and really does make me feel like he is not the man i fell in love with anymore. Before this our relationship was very serious and we were like a team and now i feel like I'm excluded out of everything. He blames everything he does on the medication and that he messes with his brain, i really don't know what to believe. i really don't believe xanax makes him forget about me all the time and not his friends. we got in to more and more fight and now he said he loves me and doesn't want to be with anyone else but me but we need a break for him to "re-kinder" our relationship. he seems to be having fun tho on our break, i don't know what to do anymore that i don't believe that he loves me. What should i do? my relationship is so f***ed up. excuse the language. Please give me advice, i didn't want to go to anybody i know because they are probably tired to hear about this. thank you
gaius Posted March 10, 2012 Posted March 10, 2012 If he wants out then he wants out, not much you can do about that. Trying to prolong the relationship will just cause him get even more uncaring and resentful towards you. Give him what he wants, and perhaps someday he will realize what he lost and come back willingly. Or you might run into a guy who wants to be with you and treats you accordingly, then live happily ever after!
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