leoc1973 Posted March 10, 2012 Posted March 10, 2012 I will say at first I was skeptical of this whole gigs stuff then throughout the months the stuff that I had read from wilsons and smokeys posts and advice about gigs all seemed to be coming true. It went right down the list from breaking up with me out of nowhere while we talked marriage to not having any valid reason to break up with me to not caring one bit about my feelings(I guess this is a big stage) having the time of her life. Then meeting some guy whom is horrible for her in every way(lowlife I am not saying it out of jealousy) then being "in love" with this guy like its some kind of magical connection. Then finally showing some signs of interest in my life. Well last week I had said she was in this stage where she was feeling me out again and just sending little emails and texts wondering if I am seeing anyone and if I like her and stuff like that. Smokey had said that this is the stage where they break up with the gigs guy and start to really miss me. Well again smokey and wilson were right. She called me out of the blue. She hasn't done this since we split 10 months ago. We talked for an hour and a half she wanted to know how my life was and told me all about hers. We both avoided asking about other people but we both brought up good times she brought up how well she knows me. OK here's the question. I don't wanna get on the subject of is there such a thing as gigs or anything like that lets just assume that its a real thing. Assuming that. Someone tell me what stage she is in and what is going on in her head. Assuming that this was a gigs breadup. Is she yet at the stage of realizing what she lost? Thoughts?
Author leoc1973 Posted March 10, 2012 Author Posted March 10, 2012 Oh and by the way I think she broke up with the gigs guy
Fitz Posted March 10, 2012 Posted March 10, 2012 Um... what is gigs? Grass Is Greener Syndrome. There are posts that explain the diagnosis on here that are really good. But I don't have the links.
wilsonx Posted March 10, 2012 Posted March 10, 2012 Good for avoiding the past year, avoid that like the plague, you dont want to know and she doesnt want to know either. Now what was said in the conversation by her? Specifics... This is crucial. The act of talking like this could be close to end of phase 3
Dragonsden Posted March 11, 2012 Posted March 11, 2012 How long did it take before she contacted you? (how long was NC)
heatherfeather Posted March 12, 2012 Posted March 12, 2012 G.I.G.S. (Grass is Greener Syndrome) and Rebound Relationships
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