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Yeah that is it really. We've been split up for a month and he says he hasnt missed me at all

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Yeah that is it really. We've been split up for a month and he says he hasnt missed me at all

 

How long were you together?

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NC the s**t out of him.

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If you have been staying in contact with him since the breakup of course he doesn't miss you. You have to do NC. It's hard but its something that has to be done in order to help you move on.

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In that time you were in touch? If yes, then how you were separated? IF no, then you must think very seriously on your relationship. It may be the case of cheating. Just talk to him and try to discover the reason.....

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We were together for a year and a half and have been broken up for a month. I did NC for 2 weeks until he text me and then it like opened up the flood gates and I've been talking to him since

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Do it again. He feels he still has you.. Let him know he doesnt. Make it clear

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Girl, mine said the SAME thing 'oh, Im just SO happy in my life right now' he says.....not a mention of missing anything about our relationship

 

But.....he called me instead of texting to tell me he couldnt look at the balance of his credit card (we have stuff to sort out between us money etc) but I was like 'um, you didnt need to call, I dont need to hear you, you can just text me that info' and then he starts going on about his day and how little sleep he has had on his shifts etc and I just didnt even listen because guess what honey, you lost out on having someone to download on about your day when you DUMPED me! Lol

 

Oh and then he was supposed to come get some stuff from the house when I was at work but turns up at FIVE THIRTY RIGHT when I get home! I gave him a few things and kicked him out as I had a social engagement to get to- once again -oh, you dont miss me but yet you just happen to come around when Im home...bull****.

 

Of course they miss things about being in a relationship, if you have been in one for over a year it becomes part of your lifestyle. You are just used to waking up together on a Sunday etc etc...but they arent going to acknowledge that at all and honestly who cares if they do or not?? YOU deserve someone who tells you they miss you, move on and heal so they can come into your life :)

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he sounds like a jerk, why would someone even say something like that. he's toxic. stay away from him.

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