Why do you think there is such a prevalence of women who fake their orgasms?

[Chubbi]

Every woman's experience of sex is very different.

 

One day, I read a magazine and got soo angry, I told my sister and her friend, "Oh no! Women can never orgasm through sex alone! It says it right here!" They laughed in my face. My friend told me she & her bf always come together during intercourse, and my sister and friend said they had no trouble at all during intercourse. Another of my friend also told me she very much enjoys intercourse, none of the foreplay.

 

I'm a virgin, but I just wanted to point out that there are definitely some lucky women out there, having fun. In my own experience with masturbation, I don't need anything but very light, repeated touches around the area and I will come, no penetration, no vibration, nothing else but light touches and 7 minutes. But masturbation may be different from sex with another person.

 

I've read another study that said if fuller lips and you tend to enjoy sex more. lol I don't know which lips they were talking about.

[Els]

 

I have introduced vibrators into the bedroom and shown men how I like them used. Often times they overstimulate or understimulate, it's not easy even for myself to find that right spot. Once I do find it, I enjoy myself but since it takes so long they think its not working, and proceed to change positions/angles or try something else like oral or penetration.

 

It does take a bit of practice, and trying different vibes to find the right one for you. Kinda like finding a man, really. :laugh:

 

They just jump around the place trying everything they can in hopes I will come, but that's just distracting and turns me off.

 

Have you tried communicating this to them?

 

Overall, the sex has gotten better when I express myself more in the bedroom (in terms of what i like/don't like) but altogether, I still have never orgasmed with a man. That having been said, I don't always orgasm during masturbation (about 80% of the time I do).

 

That just makes me wonder if i'm one of those women who have an extremely difficult time orgasming.

 

Gosh, the bolded makes me pretty sad. Do you ever fantasize, when you are masturbating? Are there particular thoughts or sexual acts or fetishes that you find turn yourself on more than others?

[The Blue Knight]

Google "2012 Mini Cooper Safety Ratings" and you'll find this answer:

 

 

For some reason, the LS site has rejected the link, twice.

I was being somewhat tongue in cheek but the truth is, the sheer size of the Mini would leave me personally feeling a bit vulnerable. It sits so low compared to other vehicles on the roadway that it would make me uncomfortable. I've seen a few too many accidents / fatalities on the roadway. Never fun.

[udolipixie]

It is a well know fact, that 83% of human females, fake their orgasms. Google it!

More like 60% of women according to Erin Cooper at Temple University.

[FrustratedStandards]

Gosh, the bolded makes me pretty sad. Do you ever fantasize, when you are masturbating? Are there particular thoughts or sexual acts or fetishes that you find turn yourself on more than others?

 

Yes. An incredible man from my imagination who does not exist in real life He also has the mouth of a god

 

More like 60% of women according to Erin Cooper at Temple University.

 

Either way, I think most statistics can agree that it's the majority.

[udolipixie]

Why do you think there is such a prevalence of women who fake their orgasms?

Want to please partner

generally in sex women tend to give more than get

 

Fear of intimacy

Some see orgasming as being vulnerable

 

Many men lack female anatomical knowledge

It's not going to happen so why not just it over with mindset

 

Sex is not enjoyable

In relationships it tends to have a mindset of sex is an obligation and she owes it to him to have sex with him or he'll leave or cheat

 

Porn play aka wanting women to be more like actresses in porn

Fake sex often leads to fake orgasms

 

Fear of communication

Don't want ot hurt his ego, pride, feelings

 

Doesn't see it as important but knows orgasms are seen as the norm

 

Most answers about human heterosexual sex can be answered here:

The National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior

The National Health and Social Life Survey

Interesting note only 29% of women orgasm every time during sex and yes that includes foreplay not just penetration.