ThatBwoii Posted March 9, 2012 Posted March 9, 2012 whens the best time to send a letter of apology after a argument, how much time and space should i give her?
TigerCub Posted March 9, 2012 Posted March 9, 2012 It would depend on what the argument was about - how bad it got. But for the record, a letter is kind of the cowardly way of saying sorry. If you're sorry, why not just say that to her face? Again, I don't know if you live in the same city, what this is about, if she's a gf, etc... more info needed.
Author ThatBwoii Posted March 9, 2012 Author Posted March 9, 2012 (edited) got to point where she never wanted to speak to me anymore, she lives 15miles away and doesnt wanna see me. Edited March 9, 2012 by ThatBwoii
FrustratedStandards Posted March 9, 2012 Posted March 9, 2012 There's never a "wrong" time to send a letter of apology (in your situation).
Linda Lee Posted March 9, 2012 Posted March 9, 2012 A week is a reasonable amount of time, let things settle down before you send the letter.
serial muse Posted March 9, 2012 Posted March 9, 2012 If this is to the girl you were talking about in your thread yesterday - I don't think you should send a letter of apology at all, because you have nothing to apologize for. She is redirecting her anger with her ex onto you: She asked you to tell her if he cheated, and you did. Not your fault in any way. Please don't encourage her to think that you're in the wrong by offering an apology in this case. She needs to grow up.
Author ThatBwoii Posted March 9, 2012 Author Posted March 9, 2012 there is ill be honest i wrote it in a letter where I was swearing at her, i have sent the letter and cleared the my concience, im going no contact now I has nothing left to apologize for now.
Author ThatBwoii Posted March 10, 2012 Author Posted March 10, 2012 lol shes a bitch, told me to f off and theres no reason why she doesnt want me to speak to her any more, least theres some comfort in knowing i wouldnt have lasted v long with someone this immature anyway
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