stimson554 Posted March 9, 2012 Posted March 9, 2012 If you're trying to get over a person who left you and they try to contact you or come into your life, just tell them off, no matter how hard it may be, you'll be glad that you did later on, me and this girl were head over heels in love, outta nowhere she ended it giving excuses, she really left for this other guy i think. i was heartbroken for months and she contacted me, i poured my heart out to her(which was a bad idea). she was only trying to stroke her ego, whatever you want to call it, and we fell out of contact again, then months later she contacted me again saying she missed me and wanted to be "just friends" everything in me was saying to take her offer, but i was tired of being weak and being manipulated, so i refused, i did something unorthadox, i actually cussed her out so that she would not try to contact me again, my reason was that if she doesnt contact me again, im gonna have to get over her sooner or later, "burning my bridges" as you will, and you know what? it was the best decision i could have ever made, now im doin fine and shes going in a downward spiral and i still don't pity her. I'm telling you guys, do this, you won't regret it, you will come out completely free and you again.
nick d Posted March 9, 2012 Posted March 9, 2012 Goin through that now man. Me and my ex were head over heels in love. And out of no where she ended it. Now she is partying and getting drunk every night with other guys. I too poured my heart out and it did me no good at all. Now I don't talk to her and I won't even if she tries to contact me. The way I see it, she left me to go party. So it's her loss!
Bella26 Posted March 9, 2012 Posted March 9, 2012 I did this also. It was the hardest thing ever, and I have moments of questioning whether I did the right thing, but I know deep down it had to happen. Have you heard from her since you layed into her? How do you know she is on a downward spiral?
Author stimson554 Posted March 10, 2012 Author Posted March 10, 2012 Yeah, she tried to contact me and saidsshes been drinking alot, I didn't respond lol.
Author stimson554 Posted March 10, 2012 Author Posted March 10, 2012 ummm, you don't know me or the story behind all of this so to just generalize that i'm immature for cussing somone out makes you look pretty foolish, theres nothing i can learn from a book that i don't already know,so you need to take a step back, i hope you can read because i stated that i did it to get her away from me in order to force myself to get over her and it worked, and tho cussing might not have been the best of options it worked and i'm doing fine now, im quite young but i can handle my problems better than people twice, three times my age, obviously. i don't care if my methods seem immature to you or to anyone else, i found a means to rid myself of months of mental and emotional torture, you can at least give me credit for that, not try and take a swing at someone you don't even know.
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