just-me12 Posted March 9, 2012 Posted March 9, 2012 I have searched around and couldn't find a post about this, but thought there would have been so direct me if there is. Simple question is how often do you talk to your partner/person you are dating throughout the day? I know the only way to settle my mind is talk to him but I am worried if I bring it up he will run away. When we are together things seem amazing, he has apparently told his parents about me and has told me what they are like, told his sister, (I am confident that he has as when he was away for six weeks he would send photos via email to me, his sister and his parents all in one so they would have noticed my email) He brought me back a few wooden ornaments for my dresser, he sent me a valentines day card while away and said he was glade I was his valentine. He does little this that make it amazing when we are together but during the day while he is at work there is not much communication. I messaged him yesterday around 3 ish (he did stay the night so sore each other in the morning) today I thought I would of got a goodmorning message but didnt, i sent him one around 10ish....I know it is only 11.15 and shouldn't stress he hasn't replied but I am so much. So was just wondering how often you talk to your partner? We have only been dating for 2 months but 6 weeks of that he was in africa.
veggirl Posted March 9, 2012 Posted March 9, 2012 Are you guys officially BF and GF? It's going to vary by couple, of course, both by what their communication needs are and what their schedules are. BF is much more busy at work than I am. I could sit around texting most of the day if I wanted, he couldn't. We text on and off throughout the day, it will often take him an hour or whatever to respond to me. Not a problem--he is busy at work, not just sitting around at work like I am Some days we'll exchange 50 texts a piece. Today it's only been like 5 a piece.
Author just-me12 Posted March 9, 2012 Author Posted March 9, 2012 Not officially from my view we have not had the conversation. I know he can be busy at work, definitely today as he works on a harbour and with the bad weather we have had of late has kept it quite now having a sunny day could mean he is quite busy.
veggirl Posted March 9, 2012 Posted March 9, 2012 Okay yeah, he does sound busy. So try to relax. At this point, not talking during the day isn't a big deal (and depending on schedules may never be possible as much as you want it!). Do you speak each night? It's REALLY only been 2wks that you've been dating in the same country. So...just breathe, take a step back, an hour to respond to a msg is not too much!
Author just-me12 Posted March 9, 2012 Author Posted March 9, 2012 Okay yeah, he does sound busy. So try to relax. At this point, not talking during the day isn't a big deal (and depending on schedules may never be possible as much as you want it!). Do you speak each night? It's REALLY only been 2wks that you've been dating in the same country. So...just breathe, take a step back, an hour to respond to a msg is not too much! Yeah, we will text each other of a night goodnight and that and he bent over backwards for contact while he was away. Im just new to the whole dating thing in a way, never really had a guy who cared enough to put time into anything. A whole new learning curve I guess
Nwabudikhe Posted March 9, 2012 Posted March 9, 2012 I know my GF at times would text me something controversial, and then have a horrible night because I didn't reply to her and she would assume I was mad and didn't want to talk to her anymore. Turns out I'm just starting my own business, and right when I got caught up in hours of work that demanded my full attention is when she decided to ask me something really important. It happens. A good man won't just leave you hanging, so don't worry about it. He will either get back to you when he can, or he's just not as great as you thought he was if he leaves you high and dry. Either way, best wishes to you both.
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