xztjohn Posted March 8, 2012 Posted March 8, 2012 I feel like breaking no contact and just shooting her a text saying How are you doing? I havent really talked to her in 2 or 3 months. We broke up for 5 months now. the last 2 months she still shoots me a random text and some unknown calls, but I just ignore them. Would it be wise for me to shoot her a text or stay with what I am doing? and why?
Author xztjohn Posted March 8, 2012 Author Posted March 8, 2012 i guess i just genuinely wanna know how she is doing? havent talked o her for awhile. she has always asked how i was doing but i always ignored her. saying i hope you are doing well and i hope you are happy and can u call me i need help with hw. if u were her and i havent responded to any of ur text in a long time and u get a random text saying how are you? how would you feel? would this be a good or bad idea
CaliBabe Posted March 8, 2012 Posted March 8, 2012 This is a bad idea. We have been telling you this. It seems like you are waiting for one person to validate and say to do it so you feel it isn't so bad. You will not get anything out of it. You will look like you miss her and show you are weak. Be strong if you can. 1
Author xztjohn Posted March 8, 2012 Author Posted March 8, 2012 have you broken no contact before? how did that turn out?
CaliBabe Posted March 8, 2012 Posted March 8, 2012 I have broken no contact by responding to a text. He was probably doing it stroke his own ego and I fell for it. Lesson learned. I felt like total crap and like I had lost all the power that I had built up over the months. It's not worth all your progress, it's just not. Go ahead and do it, you might just have to learn for yourself. But be warned, when it does not go your way, it's gonna suck hard.
Author xztjohn Posted March 8, 2012 Author Posted March 8, 2012 (edited) i broke no contact before to, she said "can you call me, I need help with biology hw if you don't mind." I helped her by just texting real kept it short. SHe played the guilt trip card cause she helped me out after the break up with hw, so I felt like i owed her. Didn't hear from her for awhile. Do I just keep no contact forever? Also I get unknown calls and im pretty sure its her, whats the point of calling me and not answering? Edited March 8, 2012 by xztjohn
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