FellaP Posted March 8, 2012 Posted March 8, 2012 I'm in a 4 year-old relationship and yesterday my bf told me that my best friend was been acting weird for the past 3 months when I'm not around. The incidences: 1) Coming to his work suddenly for both his b-day and on Valentine. According to him she was smiling and joking around with him and trying to set up a hang-out (which he declined and said had other plans). 2) Logging on online and requesting that he show up on cam. Reason he didn't told me that is because he thought it was just her way of talking to people and didn't want to ruin my friendship. But today he show me a message she wrote to him on facebook. It said the following. Hi Russell, It's been a while since we don't talk anymore and you never turn your cam on. Let me know if you wanna hang-out with me. We can go to the movies or a club but just don't tell my friend. Well talk to you later. Let me know if you're going to be on im.
Author FellaP Posted March 8, 2012 Author Posted March 8, 2012 I confronted her afterward but she told it that it was only going to be a hang-out and meant no harm. If that's the case then why the ''but just don't tell my friend'' part on her message? And what's up with the showing up to his work suddenly? If my bf was going out with her as friends then I deserve to know. Why the secret?
LnliHrt Posted March 8, 2012 Posted March 8, 2012 Your BF could of had awesome sex with your hot friend. He is an idiot for telling you. You should dump him for being an idiot boyfriend!
Author FellaP Posted March 8, 2012 Author Posted March 8, 2012 What can I make of this? This is making wonder what if instead of my man telling me, he would have accepted it and gone along with it? I don't want to think stupid things, but it's making me think that her intentions weren't innocent at all.
dasein Posted March 8, 2012 Posted March 8, 2012 Your GF plainly has designs on your BF, and at the very least no respect for you as a friend and your relationship. Sorry, but she needs to GO now, from both your life and your BF's. These types can do untold damage to your relationship. Say adios and good riddance.
LnliHrt Posted March 8, 2012 Posted March 8, 2012 You are hella naive, OFCORSE she wanted to suck his penis and let him drill her deep in to her poop hole! No wonder why she thought she could get away with it..you seem childish in your thinking. Your boyfriend can't keep a secret and betraidr her trust in him....I say dump the loser!
Author FellaP Posted March 8, 2012 Author Posted March 8, 2012 Your BF could of had awesome sex with your hot friend. He is an idiot for telling you. You should dump him for being an idiot boyfriend!Oh really. So I should accept a cheating man and getting treated with such disrespect? You're the reason why men are given such a bad label.
Author FellaP Posted March 8, 2012 Author Posted March 8, 2012 Cheating to me equals = get the hell out of life, no second chances
Author FellaP Posted March 8, 2012 Author Posted March 8, 2012 You are hella naive, OFCORSE she wanted to suck his penis and let him drill her deep in to her poop hole! No wonder why she thought she could get away with it..you seem childish in your thinking. Your boyfriend can't keep a secret and betraidr her trust in him....I say dump the loser!True I might be kinda naivee and that's because I don't like thinking bad of people, much less a good friend. But now that I know her intentions, she lost both my trust and friendship.
PrincessPeach Posted March 8, 2012 Posted March 8, 2012 It sounds like your boyfriend has respect for you, but that your "best" friend does not. 1
LnliHrt Posted March 8, 2012 Posted March 8, 2012 True I might be kinda naivee and that's because I don't like thinking bad of people, much less a good friend. But now that I know her intentions, she lost both my trust and friendship. Now we getting some place. Block her from Facebook and kick her out of your life forever!
Author FellaP Posted March 8, 2012 Author Posted March 8, 2012 It sounds like your boyfriend has respect for you, but that your "best" friend does not.Yes, he hates cheaters too.
Author FellaP Posted March 8, 2012 Author Posted March 8, 2012 Now we getting some place. Block her from Facebook and kick her out of your life forever!Just blocked her now.
Author FellaP Posted March 8, 2012 Author Posted March 8, 2012 How old are you, your BF and the ex friend?My ex friend and I are 21 years-old and my BF is 23.
LnliHrt Posted March 8, 2012 Posted March 8, 2012 Yea, you did sound young, but that's OK, cause you are. You have a good Man there, I wish you lots of healthy children. 1
Professor X Posted March 8, 2012 Posted March 8, 2012 I confronted her afterward but she told it that it was only going to be a hang-out and meant no harm. If that's the case then why the ''but just don't tell my friend'' part on her message? And what's up with the showing up to his work suddenly? If my bf was going out with her as friends then I deserve to know. Why the secret? Well, you confronted her, how did she justify the need for secrecy? And also, it's obvious that your BF is loyal to you, tell your friend to get lost and never speak to her again. 1
Author FellaP Posted March 8, 2012 Author Posted March 8, 2012 Well, you confronted her, how did she justify the need for secrecy?She tried telling me how it's silly for me to think that she has any intentions with my man and ''I was only inviting him to chill and hang-out and well didn't want to upset you and make you think things'' and then she kept going ''You really think I'm going to steal him or cheat with you man, I would never do that, Fella you know me blah, blah, blah. Yeah right, like Im really going to believe it now. In all my life, I've never even tried flirting with a friend's bf. That is out of the question and something you just don't cross. And also, it's obvious that your BF is loyal to you, tell your friend to get lost and never speak to her again.Her status as of now changed to ex friend.
Author FellaP Posted March 8, 2012 Author Posted March 8, 2012 I'm still kinda shocked she had that intention. Out of so many people not worth trusting, I didn't think this would be coming out from her. It seemed unlike her character.
LnliHrt Posted March 8, 2012 Posted March 8, 2012 I'm still kinda shocked she had that intention. Out of so many people not worth trusting, I didn't think this would be coming out from her. It seemed unlike her character. Maybe she is possessed by a demon?
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