ThatBwoii Posted March 8, 2012 Posted March 8, 2012 (edited) Basically i been seeing this girl for 4 months who has also been a friend for most of my life. She told me she wanted to know the truth about her ex so i told her he cheated on her 6 times even with her best friend and now she blames me, said she wished i never told her and that she doesnt wanna know me anymore, oddly she thinks i did outta spite cause i was mad at her :\ What have i done wrong and will she be back? What shall i do at this point? Do i go no contact? Edited March 8, 2012 by ThatBwoii
blotter Posted March 8, 2012 Posted March 8, 2012 "Don't ever get angry at a man for stating the truth." -Ayn Rand 1
EgoJoe Posted March 8, 2012 Posted March 8, 2012 Yes, NC. By placing blame on you, she avoids blaming him and herself. You're a solid dude. I remember your older posts and how you told your Ex off. If she wants to talk she'll come to you. If this is a game to get out, engage in a power struggle etc, let her go. It has only been four months, too early for relationship drama.
ChrisMac Posted March 8, 2012 Posted March 8, 2012 wtf? Why did you know all this about her ex? Were you guys friends before? Either way, yeah, stand your ground and be confident in that you did the right thing. She'll realize her mistake.
Linda Lee Posted March 8, 2012 Posted March 8, 2012 She still has feelings for her ex, that's obvious. In this case the no contact role might not work, unless you know that she would miss you. However, at this level of the relationship, it is best to apologize to her.
Author ThatBwoii Posted March 8, 2012 Author Posted March 8, 2012 She still has feelings for her ex, that's obvious. In this case the no contact role might not work, unless you know that she would miss you. However, at this level of the relationship, it is best to apologize to her. i did do that immediately after and she text me "LEAVE ME ALONE"
shayla Posted March 9, 2012 Posted March 9, 2012 This was a question that she didn't really want an answer to. She needed to find this out for herself. It's like when a girl is fighting with her boyfriend...she comes to you for support, you both trash him, then she goes back to him and you become their enemy. She put you in the middle of her drama with him and you have ended up the odd man out. You have apologized to her, that is pretty much all you can do.
g450 Posted March 11, 2012 Posted March 11, 2012 If its one thing I cant stand, its a drama queen. Consider yourself lucky that you now know how she is. Time to move on.
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