Leigh 87 Posted March 8, 2012 Posted March 8, 2012 Are people really sad enough to make up blatent lies about others? Sorry, but it really is very sad! . honestly..... do people actually want to waste their energy on something as boring, as making up a lie or romour, often about a person they do not even know, or dislike? Here is my situation. My boyfriend caught up with an old female friend the other day. He and this female friend, and her BOYFRIEND, were best friends in their 20's, right up until my boyfriend met ME. They were having problems, this couple, whome my boyfriend was great friends with. The guy was crying and uspet over breaking up with the girl. I comforted him, AS I WOULD ANY PERSON. He tried to kiss me. He was BEST FRIENDS with my boyfriend, who was sleeping in the other room. Charming. I tolf the truth to my boyfriend, and the guy who did it, and the girlfriend he was in the process of breaking up with, had a real go at me. They said I was butt ugly, and was wayyy to ugly and stupid and ishisrwgthrli a mILLION other insults, for him to want to touch me with a ten foot pole. The girl smashed my phone, told me I was not good enough for my boyfriend, and threatened me, told me my boyfriend only used me, that I am too ugly and stupid to ever be loves. She sent me the most abuse, heinous, messages on facebook, that any human being has ever sent me. Of course, my boyfriend ceased his friendship with her. a year later, she texted him, and he agreed t hang out with her. He told me, and ased me if it was ok, since they WERE best friends, and she was a lot of fun to hang with back in the day. By the way, she is very unnatractive, and my boyfriend thinks she is disgusting, looking that is; there was NOTHING sexual going on in his mind. LOL. They hung out. He had a cr@p time with her. She is into drugs now. He was bored and thought she behaved like an idiot. No where near as classy or fun to be around as a women like me... Interestingly, she told him that she heard that ME, LEIGH, had supposedly hooked up with a black guy, and my boyfriend went crazy over it. ................. um.. where.. on EARTH... would she hear, that I hooked up.. with a black guy.....? I just don't get it. lol. Since it did not happen, and I have never remotely cheated or thought about cheating, someone must have MADE IT UP. She did flaunt to be, when i talked to her, before we had the falling out, she said " Your boyfriend said he would chose me ( their friendship), over you ANy day:)" ... and then in the end, he chose me? hmmm bitter much?
Author Leigh 87 Posted March 8, 2012 Author Posted March 8, 2012 Is she really sad enough to make that sh*t up? I don't get it. What joy does making up lies about people, bring to humam beings? Please enlighten me? I am out of work, have 100% spare time, but I have... no joy, in talking badly, or making things up about other people... especially a person I do not LIKE? Sorry. I just feel so sorry for people that enjoy making up random gossip.
eleanorhurting Posted March 8, 2012 Posted March 8, 2012 i dont understand why your boyfriend would hang out with this girl
Mme. Chaucer Posted March 8, 2012 Posted March 8, 2012 Don't put any more energy into it, and don't let toxic people into your life.
Author Leigh 87 Posted March 8, 2012 Author Posted March 8, 2012 He DOESN'T hang out with this girl anymore... Like a lot of people, they had history together - they were good friends for about 5 years. You know - every weekend, went out together. Apparently, she was fun back in the day. Now, she taes drugs every weekend, and he thinks she is a bit of a loser. Hence why he never sees her. She texted him out of the blue, and he thought he may as well give her a chance, to see if he could have a fun night with her. Turns out, she just aint that fun.
SmileFace Posted March 8, 2012 Posted March 8, 2012 Well since he isn't attracted to her and you know he won't fall for her. You guys can probably have a three some with her? If she demands money, you can probably pay her on cigs or something. It will be much easier than finding a prostitute and you know he won't fall for her. 2
FitChick Posted March 8, 2012 Posted March 8, 2012 Ask your boyfriend why he would believe anything a drug addict would say?
Author Leigh 87 Posted March 8, 2012 Author Posted March 8, 2012 LOL. he DIDNT believe her!!!!!!!!!! I think u have misundderstood the nature of this post - Even though some lies and rumorus are utter rubish, I am just baffled that there ARE people who actually CHOOSE to make lies up.... No nonono. I just wanted to vent, that I basically cannot believe that people literally make sh*t up. Ya know, u hear something that is so, so obviously made up, and u think " omg.... really?" Of course, we both thought it as total nonsense...... AS to a 3 some? Ew. No. WAy. I ALSO have to be not repulsed. She is an ugly person, inside and out, to me. I can deal with a girl who is not : conventionally" hot. Sure. If she is a sweetheart and we click. But this girl, is truly nasty, bitchy, and NOT my type of girl. My b.f would not be able to stomach hooking up with her, either.....
Author Leigh 87 Posted March 8, 2012 Author Posted March 8, 2012 Do, is anyone on here brave enough to confess to a blatent lie, syupid rumour they made up? lolz. I have never done this in my adult life. I have a lot of flaws, don't get me wrong, it just does not strike me to ever .. make anything UP about another person? I also do not b*tch about people or tal badly behind any ones back. Not to be morally superior, but because I do not enjoy it; if I do not have anything nice to say, I simply have no urge to say it? Sheesh.
Kamille Posted March 8, 2012 Posted March 8, 2012 Leigh, first of all: why do you think you were "ugly" in the past? If that guy tried to kiss you, clearly your looks were not that repulsive to him. So why do you believe that kind of bs about yourself? Do you mean, instead, that this happened at a time when you weren't feeling good about yourself? Note that this is completely different from whether or not others perceive you as pretty or ugly. Second: what do you mean your boyfriend went crazy about the rumor? Did he believe her or not?
Author Leigh 87 Posted March 8, 2012 Author Posted March 8, 2012 Kamille - LOL.. my boyfriend did nto go " crazy' ove the rumour... the RUMOUR WAS, that he went crazy, after I apparently hooked up. With a " black" guy. HMM. F*ck, they sound crazy, making up a specific race? Lol, my boyfriend just thought it was completely sad peopl emae this cr@p up. Lastly, I WAS truly ugly in the past, but I am attractive now. I had to worj hard, though - educate myself on long term, sustainable weight loss, nutrition, I became a personal trainer even, got an eating disorder, and am now a healthy slim. I also had deformed teeth,a nd could not talk properly as a child. I was PAINFULLY shy, largely due to having a speach impediment. I got braces at age 10 or there abouts, to corrrect it. I had braces in my erly 20;'s AGAIN, also. Now, I have a nice smile, albiet, not perfect, Just nice:) Which I am thrilled with. Verzan, this negative girl on this site, goes on and ON about being " ugly".. but she has no clue, as I truly WAS ugly.. I had a f*cking facial deformaty and could not SPEA propely, my teeth were literally that bad. And very yellow, cos I could not brush them, as they were so over crouded, I could not reach them all. So yes. I was truly , utterly unnatractive when younger. I only became attractive from age 24 or so. Which I am HAPPY about - I had to develop a personality and learn that I had to get by int he world, without depending on my looks:) furthermore, I do not go around calling this girl ugly: she is unnatractuve to me, sand while my boyfriend is happy to call a spade a spade, and say " f*ck, shes so ugly", I am not: I justs ay " yes, she is unnatractive to me, but she is attractive to the guys that like her"
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