cookieninja Posted March 8, 2012 Posted March 8, 2012 Hi everyone, so ill make this short, i just need some advice and any ideas. I am a complete f-up i know before you all say anything. So i made a huge mistake by not maning up to my gf of 7 years and she dumped me and changed her number and wants nothing to do with me now. I am so devestated and dont know what to do, its been a month now that we havent seen eachother, we have communicated thru e-mail a bunch of times but nothing positive. I made a mistake and have apologized for it but she cant seem to forgive me or give me another chance, now i dont know why ! maybe there is another guy in the picture or maybe i really hurt her and she wants to move on. She was pregnant and I told her to keep the baby but i wouldnt move in with her right away, she went and had and abortion and dumped me and says i didnt step up to the plate! I never saw the actuall test and I felt like this whole thing could of been a test, im so confused, we were together for 7 damn years, and have history of 14 years. this really sucks. im so confused!
Philosoraptor Posted March 8, 2012 Posted March 8, 2012 The thing here is that you were honest with her and she made her choices based on your honesty. How did the dialogue go in the conversation? Either way stop trying to contact her. It will bring you nothing but pain.
ChrisMac Posted March 8, 2012 Posted March 8, 2012 Agreed. You have to end all contact. When girls need time apart and don't want to talk to you, they make it pretty clear. And you stop contacting them. If she actually had to block your number, you clearly crossed a few lines. If you're ever going to get her back, she has to come to you. And that will only happen if you stop contact. And if she doesn't ever come back to you, then that means it wasn't reparable anyway and you have to move on. But seriously man, consider what you did that made her change her number, and then never do that with anyone again.
GKM Posted March 8, 2012 Posted March 8, 2012 it could have been a test- after seven year I think she wanted that ring/commitment etc! Or it could have been real and in that case I can also see how she would have been hurt! In either case- all you can do is let her heal. Maybe in a few months try to give her one last apology with everything you have, to let her know you understand what you did to her. But stop pushing it now, she is too upset to hear it.
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