Onsy Posted March 8, 2012 Posted March 8, 2012 Hi, Sorry for bothering you all with this, I feel silly... but I can´t stop thinking about it, maybe I´m just stupid and overreacting... There is a girl I have known for about 1 or 2 years, that´s now moving in with a friend of hers, a guy, this guy already has a "girlfriend", and I know that for certain. It seems as if this guy gives her a certain feeling of safety or comfort though as they have been talking about moving in together. It wont happen anything between them, I know that, since he already found his love... but, there is still something in my mind, little things that I´m uncertain of... when you live together with someone, just as a friend, it cures lonliness in someway, but my thoughts are also that it takes away something that the feeling of lonliness gives us. Perhaps good and bad, depending on the situation... I can´t make a move or talk about it, because I will get the reply "I dont know what I want", or I will be ignored. It´s been like that for a long time. It seems as she is very introverted, and afraid. I don´t mind that at all though, I don´t demand anything, but it would be fine to see somekind of appreciation... just something little. If I don´t write back after a couple of days, she will write back, and it goes over and over like that. My mind is tired, and I´m quite sick of all this, but still not certain of what I should do, since I like her, and I live a lonely life. Perhaps thats why... Any help is greatly appreciated... greatly. Thanks for reading this babbling.
Author Onsy Posted March 8, 2012 Author Posted March 8, 2012 Did you want or expect her to move in with you? Thanks for reading Fitchick. No, not really, I don´t mind the distance, it´s only a few hours or less. I´m starting to doubt what I want, it´s the whole situation, all the factors in relation to eachother. It´s hard to explain, I don´t really feel appreciated, feels like I´m just wasting my energy and damaging my mind on someone who doesn´t care.
Forever Learning Posted March 13, 2012 Posted March 13, 2012 She sounds uncertain about her life and the things she wants in them. Why don't you try asking her more pointed questions in order to get straight answers from her about her feelings? It's worth a shot. Good luck.
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