mike588 Posted March 8, 2012 Posted March 8, 2012 Like all of us dumpees here we wished...wanted hoped and prayed that we would hear from our ex. someday. Ok lets say they do contact you either to try to get back together or just to have their ego stroked and or rid themselves of their guilt NOT wanting to "try it again" I would guess if you don't respond they would either keep trying or give up? If you do respond whats next? Has their ego been stroked...they no longer feel guilty and move on even further or do they keep coming back for more?
ThatDudeXO Posted March 8, 2012 Posted March 8, 2012 I'd like to know this too so if you don't mind, I want to add a question to it I have no intention of being just friends with my ex but I still love her so much that I would like to try again. What do I do if she does contact me?
Author mike588 Posted March 8, 2012 Author Posted March 8, 2012 I'd like to know this too so if you don't mind, I want to add a question to it I have no intention of being just friends with my ex but I still love her so much that I would like to try again. What do I do if she does contact me? Don't respond...well at least to fast. Let her 'hint" mention about trying it again...not you!
Million.to.1 Posted March 8, 2012 Posted March 8, 2012 There are no rules. There are no absolutes. There are so many factors to consider... why you broke up, when, how, who did it.. etc. I think people wanting to hear back from an ex should really just try and analyze what it is they need to hear. Why is only one person responsible for your happiness? This is not healthy. Even by constantly wondering and asking, you are simply looking for one answer. The one you want to hear, rather than the actual truth. The truth is, that while you are this concerned with what they want, what they mean and what you should say, you are not ready to engage in anything. 3
wilsonx Posted March 8, 2012 Posted March 8, 2012 Mike, your ex reached out to be friends, we told you this in your many posts. There might have been guilt there but I am curious as to what your response to her was if she did not respond. If she made that much of an attempt to win your friendship with all those messages and the note on the door, you most likely pushed her away with your response.
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