pinkjett Posted June 8, 2004 Posted June 8, 2004 i haven't been on in a while, i have no where else to turn. i been strung along (voluntarily, i guess) for a bit with someone but i now have suspect to think he's starting up with someone esle. which means that his whole reason for keeping things not as serious was a lie. it's just not me that he wants. it's not a new story, it just kills when it happens to you. and i can't stop wallowing in self pity. every thing that enters my head is jr. high 'why me's', and 'when did it turn so bad'. worst part yet is that i have to just wait and hope that he tells me what's up, because i'm not supposed to know what's up really. it's like waiting for an axe to fall on your head. he gets to be happy and i get to be sad. it sucks and i can't stop crying. i had to leave work and i won't go back tomorrow either. i'm lucky i have a boss who understands. basically, how do you deal with someone that hurts you, but that you still love?
Girlie Posted June 8, 2004 Posted June 8, 2004 Please, do yourself a favor and don't "wait around" to see what's up. There's no reason to just keep hanging onto something like that. You are worth more than that, I assure you. Unrequited love sucks...and I think we've all been there. As far as how to heal, everyone is different, so I don't know what it's going to take for you. I think some important things are to realize and look at the situation for what is and move on from there. I know I have a habit of hanging on and hoping against all hopes that the situation will not turn out the way I know it's going to. It's a mistake. Don't do it. Let yourself mourn that it's not what you wanted it to be. It hurts. And then pick yourself up and move on. I wish I had more advice for you, but I wish you luck. Please hang in there.
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