Whisky1981 Posted March 7, 2012 Posted March 7, 2012 (edited) Ok I am just going mad....I just dont know if she is throwing some signs at me or is she just polite or shy or not talkative or quiet... I met her at dance classes 1 and a half month ago. I fell for her in like a second but I am not the type of a guy that will throw himself at her if she dosent show any signs....and I usually need a lot of signs . So I am asking you for help. First of all she seems very shy and introvert at least around people that she dosent know also she seems a calm kind of girl not the one dancing at clubs every suterday. So things become even more complicated. Ok lets see why I think she is interested: 1. She is always smiling at me (she may be just polite) 2. 2 weeks ago the dance class organized a road trip...first she said she is not going then after a few days she called me if I still am interested in going on this trip so we went on this trip and spent the whole day together. 3. On the road trip when I offered my hand in her support she gladly accepted and that went on for quite a while (she was wearing high heels so she really may have needed that hand ) 4. When I sent her photos from the road trip she commented the photos with this words (3 out of 10 photos were where we were on the photo together): "Hey thanks for the photos, they are beautiful. We really are cute." And then some blah blah. 5. When we came back from the road trip I kind of sensed like she was waiting for something on our way home...but I really couldnt tell...when we said good night she said it in a really soft way...hm I really cant translate that in english something like sleep tight but more childish. 6. Last week I brought her tea on the dance lessons because she said that she was not feeling well and she thought se had caught a cold...she seemed really surprised and thanked me...later that night she texted me and said thanks for the tea it really is good and wished good night to me. So now the things that really puzzle me: 1.SHE IS NOT TALKATIVE....that is a bad sign isnt it? If I dont initiate a conversation she almost wont do it and the scene will reamain quiet...so I usually start talking some bull**** after a few minutes and believe me I really dont have anything to say anymore . 2.She dosent seem to seek eye contact when I am not looking at her at least I still didnt caught her looking at me. OK I know this all seems childish but really I dont want to ruin anything between us because I have to dance with her for another month. On the other hand I really like her and would really like to bring things on a higher level. So people (especially girls - because the guys will tell me to make a move and that I am an i***t because I dont do it) what do you think should I make some kind of move or not? Thanks for your answers! Edited March 7, 2012 by Whisky1981
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