dasein Posted March 9, 2012 Posted March 9, 2012 I believe in old fashioned meeting ur sweetheart at a carnival and getting to know them , face to face. Not computer screen to computer screen. Just a persons mere presence already tells you a lot. Like it or not, use it or not, all OLD is is a database tool used to set up the exact kind of real life dates you are describing. Used correctly, it is a highly efficient timesaver for busy people, people who don't like clubs and bars, people who are in bad geography relatively near good geography, etc. It's just a tool to facilitate in person meeting, and then after that, the dating process is not one bit different than traditional dating. It shouldn't be used to the exclusion of meeting people as part of an active social life, but as an addition to it.
Good Soul Posted April 4, 2012 Posted April 4, 2012 You are a good looking guy. In fact, you are so good looking that I am wondering why you feel the need to troll online for dates. Guys who look like you never seem to have problems meeting/attracting women, IRL. So, are you just looking to get laid or do you have a horrible personality? Just kidding, sort of...
Sith Apprentice Posted April 5, 2012 Posted April 5, 2012 (edited) Online women won't respond to you unless you're in the top 5-10% of extremely good looking or wealthy guys, even then when they respond most of them are just looking for an ego boost and have no intentions of ever going on a date with you. Free sites like POF are trash. For every guy that meets someone online there are a dozen other guys getting no responses at all. Women are bombarded while men are ignored. You might as well forget about finding a girlfriend online as well, especially on a free site. On another dating site I visit they did a survey a year ago of 56,000 men and found that 96% of men who try to use online dating to get a girlfriend will fail. There's a video about the survey on Youtube, but the mods here will delete it if I post the link. Edited April 5, 2012 by Sith Apprentice
Author Mr. Savage Posted May 9, 2012 Author Posted May 9, 2012 You are a good looking guy. In fact, you are so good looking that I am wondering why you feel the need to troll online for dates. Guys who look like you never seem to have problems meeting/attracting women, IRL. So, are you just looking to get laid or do you have a horrible personality? Just kidding, sort of... Growing up and all through highschool I never looked like I do now. So I have insecurity about approaching in real life that I'm working on. But as an update I did change my pics to some more basic photos and changed my profile description and have had more success lately than in the past. I have a date friday night.
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