What does it mean

[Emmii]

I recently found out my exbf has got married

And has been asking my friends how I am? what I'm

doing? If I know his married? Wished we were still friends? He made sure his wife wasn't around when he asked about me. He told my friend that his only known his wife for four months before he married her. If you're happy why is he so concerned about me when we spilt up twelve yrs ago cause he cheated on me. He kept on trying to get back with me. But I rejected him three times. Pls can someone help me? I'm puzzled as I've never asked about him. Why now?

Edited March 7, 2012 by Emmii
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[FitChick]

He thinks he made a mistake marrying this woman. I feel sorry for her.

[Emmii]

Thank fitchick. It's been playing on my mind for the last few days. I feel for her too!

[TigerCub]

He also wanted it to get back to you that he's asking about you.

You say that this guy cheated on you and that's why you broke up.

 

He's trying to get back into your thoughts through your friends, in hopes that it will lead to you 2 talking and blah blah and lead to him being able to start an affair.

 

Which would be a pretty dumb hope on his part, considering you 2 broke up because he cheated on you - but maybe he figures that 12 years is a long time.

 

I'm guessing he hasn't changed.

 

I predict a facebook connection attempt soon (if you 2 have accounts).

 

I feel sorry for his wife.

 

Be proud of yourself for keeping him away this long.

 

My advice: Be very careful and don't waste more time analyzing him or his motives.

[Emmii]

Thank you tigerclub!

You've opened up my eyes! I never thought of that at all.As to contact I don't have a Facebook account. I've made sure that he has no means of getting contact. I'm very guarded after what he did. Unfortunately we have a mutual friend in common. I do feel for his wife!! I can't believe his not learnt anything from his previous mistake! Thanks again