xztjohn Posted March 7, 2012 Posted March 7, 2012 me and my ex broke up from a year and a half, i broke up with her wanted her back but her roomie convinced her to break it and he got with her. i was heartbroken when this happen. 3 months of drama where she finally wanted me back but i refused cause she had sex with the guy. a month of no contact and i wantrd her back but got rejected. ive been keeping strong but every so often i just hits me how she can be so heartless an put me through so much pain. its unfair how she can go out have fun with this guy who practicaly puts hwr on a pedestal by doin everything for her financially while i am trying to get back on my feet from my first break up. i had reasons for the break up and i have learned so much from it, but i jusf wish we could have worked it out or things could hve ended differently. i dont ger how my ex who says he is not attractive as me but makes her happy and she doesnt love him as mch as she did with me can be with someone who has no spine like that. this guy has alot of acne and before when we were dating she says he is kindacreepy, they are housemates with 3 other guys and girls funny how things can change just like that. i just dont get it. a part of me feels like i just should have sucked up knowing that she****ed that guy so i can be with her. we hopked up a couple of times durin that time and she told him. he said because he loves her so mch he can forgive her. i was like how can you love someone so fast and does this guy have a spine. i dont get it, wat unguys think?
nick d Posted March 7, 2012 Posted March 7, 2012 I think it's a rebound and nothing more.. He was obviously there when she was most vulnerable.. So he was there to comfort her when times were at there worst. So honestly, she doesn't seem to want to be alone. That's why she got with him so fast.. It won't last!
Author xztjohn Posted March 7, 2012 Author Posted March 7, 2012 yeah it seems like a fantasy cause he takes her out to fancy dinners and do everything for her they went to six flags and gonna take her to beyond wonderland. he puts her on a pedestal. i felt like our relationship could have lasted we had sch a good base, since we met as friends and built a relationship slowly like a typical couple. we were together for a year and a half, with me being immature. she randomly texts and calls from unknown from time to time these past two months. it makes me feel a little good inside cause it shows that senstill cares saying"i hope you are happy" and "i hope you are doing well" "can you call me and help me with a hw?"its been 5 months from the break up woth the 1st 3 months having so mch drama. i honestly would rather see her date someone else than this guy who is a douche and have no respect for my feelings. his fb wall is filled with stuff about her, while hers is not.i just want her to see the light one day.
nick d Posted March 7, 2012 Posted March 7, 2012 And she will! Right now like you said, she is living in fantasy land! She has a "false like" for him. It's the things he is doing for her that she is enjoying. Not him! Just play it cool and act like you are happy as can be (even if your not). It'll make her go crazy wondering about you!
Author xztjohn Posted March 7, 2012 Author Posted March 7, 2012 at first she was playing both fields in like 2 months, but when i said it was pver then she wanted me back and i didnt talked to her for a month. thats when she decided that she was gonna be committted to that guy. their anniversary is on january 1st, ever since then i asked her back once i got rejected. i still get random texts and unknown calls but its mot as much as before. whats your guys opinion on this?
flitzanu Posted March 7, 2012 Posted March 7, 2012 you're really focusing on the other guy, when you should be focusing on HER actions. he didn't force her to be with him, she chose to be with him. the dude has nothing to do with you. your conflict was between you and her. you shouldn't compare looks, money, or whatever else because that's totally irrelevant; unless your ex is just a total superficial, fickle bitch. if she is, then you're better off anyway dude. 1
Author xztjohn Posted March 8, 2012 Author Posted March 8, 2012 yeah ur right. what do you guys think of their relationship, it sounds really one sides. a part of me wants karma to come around for both of them, especially the guy cause i think hes a douche for being a homewrecker like that. u think they will last?
flitzanu Posted March 8, 2012 Posted March 8, 2012 yeah ur right. what do you guys think of their relationship, it sounds really one sides. a part of me wants karma to come around for both of them, especially the guy cause i think hes a douche for being a homewrecker like that. u think they will last? i'm right that it isn't his fault, yet you just repeat again that he's a douche and a homewrecker?
Author xztjohn Posted March 8, 2012 Author Posted March 8, 2012 well theres alot more to it then what i stated here,
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