jgpr21 Posted March 7, 2012 Posted March 7, 2012 I'll try to keep this short. There's this girl I'm in class with in college. We became friends really quickly, and, not surprisingly, I started having feelings for her. After a while, she started giving me signs that she started having them too. After a couple of months, I decided to tell her how I felt, but she said she just wanted to be friends, and started telling me how sorry she was that that was it. It didn't work out that way. Although we tried to be friendly for a couple of weeks, there was just too much awkwardness and now we haven't talked for months. Understand that being classmates in a small school, I have to see her every day, and, having the same circle of friends, often have to hang out with her. We still don't talk. And then she started giving me mixed signals again. Looking over at me in class all the time, glancing over whenever I pass her by. Sometimes I overhear her friends teasing her about me again. Though at the same time, no conversations, no texts (aside from a not-so-heartfelt happy birthday last week), no emails. She turns away whenever I so much as look at her, much less get close to her. She goes quiet when I join conversations with friends. Sometimes I think, though I'm not sure, that she avoids going to hangouts when she knows I'm there. I've been trying to get over her, and have come close to doing that, but now I'm not so sure what to do. Should I move on or give it a second chance?
CC12 Posted March 8, 2012 Posted March 8, 2012 If you two were at least talking a little bit, I might have suggested that you should start flirting and showing interest and go from there. But as it stands now, there is no opportunity for a second chance. There was never really even a first chance to begin with. Probably best if you move on. If she starts talking to you and showing interest in you, then reevaluate. But don't count on that happening. Just move on.
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