cookieninja Posted March 7, 2012 Posted March 7, 2012 Hi everyone thanks for taking the time to read and comment. SO my girlfriend of 7 years dumped me last month and changed her number and told me to leave her alone, the break up is a bit of along story but it did not involve cheating or abuse at all. Just pressure stress and wanting different things a bit, anywho. She broke it off was very angery and was acting weird. so I let her be and gave her her space and even though it hurt like hell i didnt chase her or pursue her at all. THEN today a month later, I get this TEX message from a number i dont know saying..."Hey hope everythig is going well with you"...... DAMN! what am i gonna do, this was at lunch and I didnt reply or call back the number. NOW im confused as to what to do any info will be greately apreciated thank you in advance and this website is a really good way for people to get info before tehy act out of emotions. looking forward to seeing what you guys/girls have to say about this.
CaliBabe Posted March 7, 2012 Posted March 7, 2012 I wouldn't respond as it didn't clearly say she wanted you back or anything of any real substance. She could be looking to stroke her own ego again, to see if she can still have you. Be strong, ignore and that will really send her a message. Anything less than "I'm sorry, I made a mistake, I want to work on things" is meaningless.
Frank13 Posted March 7, 2012 Posted March 7, 2012 I agree with not responding, but since it is not from a number you recognize, it is possible it isn't even from her. Or, you could respond with "Hi Jennifer (or any made up name). I am doing well. Sex with you last night was fantastic!!!".
Falcon25 Posted March 7, 2012 Posted March 7, 2012 Do what Frank said. Or do this "Everything is great!, see you on the other side!" Or "Everthing is great! What's up?" Or "Who are you?" Or "Please Jenny, I told you not to stalk me last week"
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