ROMEO123 Posted March 6, 2012 Posted March 6, 2012 Got a dilemma folks and need some advice. Been working a job for a while which just ended. There was a 'girl' who I ended up getting on with - having a laugh etc. I never really thought of it anything more than just banter/a colleague. However during the final month I felt an attraction growing. She kept saying things like 'she's drawn to me' and is going to 'miss me' etc. She would also drop innuendos every now and then eg. be quite cheeky. I'll admit I enjoyed teasing her, playing hard to get and being witty and I think that's what made her like me. On my final day she talked to me every chance she got and again mentioned how she enjoyed working with me and how she's a little upset I'm leaving. She touched me a lot eg hitting me, smacking me and pulling/twisting the hairs on my arm. She kept asking if I was going to give her my number and I would just joke that I wouldn't. She gave me hers and told me to call her - and that the ball was in my court. We ended on an awkward handshake (which was weird because earlier in the week she had hugged me). I think she was pissed because I was being so guarded and not really being emotional. Have I blown it or am i looking into it too much? NB: she was engaged and broke it off recently. She now has a new BF who I'm pretty sure came in on my last day and she introduced him to everyone except me. Again, I'm not sure if it was her new BF (I know she has a new BF) but I'm almost certain it was. And finally I wonder if she was doing this to 'break me'. i.e. she's used to guys flirting with her and I didn't so this made her try harder to get me to help feed her ego. In any case she has most probably succeeded. Can't stop thinking about her, yet I think she could be a good friend in the future and wouldn't want to compromise that - -i.e. if she wasn't interested then the awkwardness that would ensue.
sid3 Posted March 6, 2012 Posted March 6, 2012 I'd guess she was being friendly and playful, not so much flirty.
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