aevf39 Posted March 6, 2012 Posted March 6, 2012 ok so i have been with my long distance boyfriend for about two years and things have been rocky, but managable. we work well together and are open. but we have had huge relationship drama and were broken up for most of february because of it. it was mainly dumb and we worked it out. we just got back together on thursday, but he said he cannot talk at night for a while because he is dealing with something. he said he cannot talk about it because it has nothing to do with him, but usually we are open with each other and he tells me what is going on in his life. im just confused why he would keep something from me and why he wouldnt be able to talk at certain times when he is around the situation. he never had a problem talking around other people before. i feel crazy complaining because he is putting in effort and calling twice a day and texting and stuff, but he cant commit to a visit this weekend because of the situation.. so its just bothering me that it keeps getting brought up. i dont know if i am being dramatic and should accept the fact that i cant know everything or if i should be worried.. i know he respects me so i dont think (i hope) he wouldnt cheat. i just need advice if i should ask questions or keep waiting it out until the weekend when it is hopefully over.....
jadeline Posted March 7, 2012 Posted March 7, 2012 i think you should just wait it out. you've been together for 2 years and have been through a lot together. you guys have broken up and gotten back together. doesn't that count for something? if you know him well and you know that he's not the cheating type then just wait for him to open up. maybe for now he just needs time. i know it's hard to wait and we feel hopeless when we can't get the answers we want at once but that's part of being in a relationship. respecting your partner's feelings and wishes. i wish you both the best of luck
LoveToCuddle Posted March 10, 2012 Posted March 10, 2012 Just give him some time and he will tell you about it when he's ready Meanwhile show him your love and respect. Good luck
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