tornangel Posted March 9, 2012 Posted March 9, 2012 Wow , now this is the def of a true man in my opinion. Very smart thinking. I am in the same place : )
Author ThaWholigan Posted July 7, 2012 Author Posted July 7, 2012 I've come a long way since this thread - I'm deciding not to date right now. I don't think I should be doing so when I am not quite sorted out yet. Sure, if I meet someone who's attracted to me regardless, I will date them, but I have decided to channel my desire away from pursuit of dates, and into the rest of my life first and foremost. I think this is better for me for at least the next couple of months.......
mesmerized Posted July 7, 2012 Posted July 7, 2012 With the fact that I am trying to get fit, start a business and make money, not to mention the amount of time I will have to spend on my music, I've decided that it's probably not a good idea for me to start dating at this point. I am already pretty sure that I am not a catch for the women I would like to date, purely due to the fact that although I am getting there, I'm not quite a true man yet, and still have some immaturity and insecurity to purge myself of. So I think for me, it would be better if I give myself at least another few months before I start to get out there and date properly. I think this is better for me in the long run. Hopefully all things will fall in place by then. tbh, you are probably one of the most secure/mature people on this site. I think focusing on yourself for a while is always a good thing. Best of luck to you. 1
oaks Posted July 7, 2012 Posted July 7, 2012 With the fact that I am trying to get fit, start a business and make money, not to mention the amount of time I will have to spend on my music, I've decided that it's probably not a good idea for me to start dating at this point. Good to have some goals... Good luck with the business (and the other stuff)!
mortensorchid Posted July 7, 2012 Posted July 7, 2012 If you feel that this is the best thing for you, then all the best of luck to you in your quest. I hope, however, that you are not avoiding something though. I encountered a lot of guys who said things like this to me (and other women I suppose), and they were just full of bull^^^^. They married the next one that came along. But if this is really what you are up to, good for you and hope you become a better person because of this.
Badsingularity Posted July 7, 2012 Posted July 7, 2012 I actually feel happy when I see couples walking hand-in-hand. This is a very good sign man. I used to get angry and jealous when I saw happy couples together, but when I started to take control of my life and change the way I reacted to things and the way I thought, I started to notice that I was happy for those people. On the thread topic. Don't forget that while you are not focusing on women or dating you can still work on developing better social skills. 1
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