CC12 Posted March 7, 2012 Posted March 7, 2012 I just scared that if i tell her then she will consider breaking up again. Aw, yeah, you're right, you should definitely hide the fact that you have a contagious virus on your privates so that you don't end up alone. This is fair and reasonable. No, it isn't. Be a man and tell her, you god damned child. 1
dreamingoftigers Posted March 7, 2012 Posted March 7, 2012 If she is going to break up with you over having a mild virus as opposed to HPV, that is as messed up as you are acting by withholding the information from her. I think that when she means "drama" it is you making a big deal out of small things. Seems to be the same type of thinking in this thread. If she wants to break up with you because you got a low-grade virus, imagine if you married her and got cancer in the future.
zengirl Posted March 7, 2012 Posted March 7, 2012 Molluscum Contagiosum is a viral infection that can clear up in a couple weeks if treated right. Nothing as serious as HPV Tell her. Both get treated or whatever (never heard of that one so no idea what you're supposed to do). It's gone. The end. Maybe she'll be a little freaked out, but I honestly don't even see what the fuss is all about. Seemingly the moral arguments haven't swayed you (though they're correct!), so here's a practical one: I don't see why she would break up with you over having a minor viral infection that can clear up in a couple of weeks if treated right if you give her the info to have it treated/have yourself treated and you both move on. (Unless she just wants to break up with you; in which case, she'll get around to it soon enough anyway.) If she finds out you lied and let each other pass it back and forth, I think she will be very likely to break up with you. In this case, what is morally right is not even difficult or risky. It's actually the most pragmatic course of action.
Untouchable_Fire Posted March 7, 2012 Posted March 7, 2012 i completely agree with that. Its just the fact that MC creates bumps. If untreated they go away on their own but if you treat them properly that will go away quicker. I just feel like she is going to be upset that she has to deal with treatment. Not to mention that neither of us can have sex until were both free of the infection You shouldn't even be asking this question. You exposed her to this disease. You don't really have the right to make medical decisions for her... so full disclosure is the only option. If she dumps you for being honest. She is stupid... and that's her problem not yours.
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