thedatinggame Posted March 6, 2012 Posted March 6, 2012 Ok so I met this girl about November time and we spoke everyday and she phoned me quite alot and we met up for a date mid February. Things went well and we both announced we wanted to see each other again and she basically phoned me everyday regularly for chats over an hour long, and ive started to develop feelings for her. We again met up at the weekend and things went well and shared our first kiss. Since we met up she has been acting dry in my opinion over blackberry chat and has been no phone calls, I know it has only been 2/3 days but cant figure out wether she has lost interest or is playing a game. Should I ask her why she has been acting dry towards me or leave it untill she initiates contact? Any opinions would be appreciated.
TeeZee Posted March 6, 2012 Posted March 6, 2012 It's hard to know. People have lots of fun on the phone and through texts, and then the face to face can change things. Sorry to say it sounds like she is backing off a bit. You could certainly wait a few more days and then call her to ask, but be ready for an answer that you may not like. Or maybe her life circumstances have changed. Only one way to find out.
Author thedatinggame Posted March 6, 2012 Author Posted March 6, 2012 Yeah thats roughly what I thought, and i'm prepared to hear the worst.
Author thedatinggame Posted March 6, 2012 Author Posted March 6, 2012 Have you planned/scheduled the next date? Nope not planned any further dates/meetings
volkl1996 Posted March 6, 2012 Posted March 6, 2012 Nope not planned any further dates/meetings Do so and you will get your answer.
volkl1996 Posted March 6, 2012 Posted March 6, 2012 Do it right now, call her, not text and ask her on a date. You will get your answer today! Then update us on the situation at hand. Agreed, no texts or emails. Be prepared for hearing, in many variations, "I like you, I am busy though". That's your answer...move on. If, however you get "I would like to go out again, I am busy <the day you selected>, how about Sunday" than you are good I think.
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