xztjohn Posted March 5, 2012 Posted March 5, 2012 (edited) i broke up with her then wanted her back, one of her guy roomie who had an eye on her convinced her to break up with me. she then broke up with and they started to go out on dates soon after all the while she was texting, calling, and emailing me. he posts stuff on his fb about he was so happy and put up cheesy lines, basically rubbing it in my face so i blocked both of them on fb.i wanted her bak but she kept giving mixed signals and saying that she was soooo confused on what she wants. he treats her real nice drives her to fancy dinners and has a car, which i dont. i hooked up with her about 2 times when we broke up, which she wanted to talk and one thing led to another. i asked her straight up one time if she had sex with him which she denied at first then admitted after. that hurt real bad. so i said that its really over now. thats when she wanted me back, she begged caling me texting me crying, leaving me a voicemail and email. i ignored her for a month. saw her again after and wanted her back but got rejected. so i was wondering if it was better off that we didnt get back. this all happened in 3 months, its been 5 months now with the last two havin barely any contact mostly with her initiating.maybe we can work something out we had a whole month to think about it due to winter break. that break she thot we were really really over so she made it official with that guy .is it better that we didnt get back together or could we have worked it out? what do u guys think? Edited March 5, 2012 by xztjohn
cerridwen Posted March 5, 2012 Posted March 5, 2012 Relationships need not have this much drama. Unless that's what you fancy. Sometimes, without realizing it, we're drawn to the keen highs and lows and do our level best to keep them going. Does some part of you crave the pain? If so, get back together. Otherwise, for a real chance at a better situation, stay apart and know she's not the last girl on earth.
Chi townD Posted March 6, 2012 Posted March 6, 2012 Agreed, too much drama. You're better off. Now start working on you and your current situation.
ThatDudeXO Posted March 6, 2012 Posted March 6, 2012 I agree with Chi and Cerridwen, there has been too much drama going on. You said it killed you when you found out they slept together, I think if you get back together that thought will haunt you and hinder your relationship with her. I think you need to start fresh with someone else, there has already been too much drama and pain that I can guarantee you that getting back with her will cause more pain.
Author xztjohn Posted March 6, 2012 Author Posted March 6, 2012 do you guys think i should unblock her from fb? ive had her blocked over 2 months now. before i blocked her temporarily then i unblocked her and she blocked me for a long ass time and then i blocked her cause i wasnt ready to see her on my fb. i think ive moved on but i think about hwr especially when im not doing anything.
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