wcwright87 Posted March 5, 2012 Posted March 5, 2012 (edited) I'm losing sleep and it only happens when I am dating a girl or in a relationship with them. I used to not have a sleeping problem at all. In fact I remember falling asleep in one of my exs bed just fine. I dated this one girl for 4 1/2 months. I can say I was in love with her! She loved me too! Everything went great and my heart was happy! Till July, she said se wasn't happy with me anymore. It bothered me so bad, I developed insomnia and depression. We broke up like 2 weeks after. She got tired of me complaining. I ended up having to take anti depressants and sleep medz. Those barely even helped if at all. I rebounded and that lasted 3 weeks. After breaking up with that girl, I started sleeping without medz anything. All was fine till I eventually hooked up with another girl. My insomnia came back. She tried all she could to help me and make me feel better. I could only sleep if they slept on the phone with me or Skype. Even then I would sleep 2 hrs at a time and was hard to fall back asleep. We eventually broke up. I then told myself I wouldn't date again. I slept fine that whole time. Almost a year later, I hooked up with a girl I fell for on first sight and the same happened to her. We were crazy for each other. No disagreements on anything. It was perfect. We hung out for almost a month. No sleeping problems at this time. Till the night before I asked her out, my insomnia came back. Spite not sleeping, I tried making the best of it. We were so happy. Till oneday she came to my work and admitted her feelings for her ex. That feeling I've had when I'm in a relationship went away. I was more pissed than upset. Didn't sleep that night, but I started sleeping again. Now I'm dating another girl, and my insomnia came back. She's crazy about me as I'm crazy for her. We're not in any hurry. My question is, why is it ever since that 4 1/2 month relationship, I can't sleep or barely sleep when Im dating someone? My mind is only thinking of them, our song, and all if their accomplishments that I've never got to do. Its so intense, ill lay in bed burning up, even when its freezing! So why can I sleep fine as long as I'm not talking to anyone and when I am, I can't? It affects me and possibly my relationships. Idk what to do anymore.I really like this girl and don't want us being based on not sleeping. She feels bad that she can fall asleep anywhere, even standing up. I need any advice on might be my problem. Somebody told me that I'm jealous of her accomplishments? Cuz that's all I think about at night is her, our song, and all of her accomplishments and how nothing really scares her of her future and it does me. I've always thought too much, and I can't help it. Idk what to do. :-( Edited March 5, 2012 by wcwright87
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