strength-abounds Posted March 5, 2012 Posted March 5, 2012 After a lengthy separation, the divorce was finalized last year. I was faithful to my marriage and now that it's done, I miss the companionship of a woman. I miss spending an evening out with a beautiful woman that dresses well and enjoys spending time with me. I believe I have dealt with the emotional trauma I suffered during the divorce and have accepted that it's over. Though my EW is not a nice human being, I do treasure our time together because it has made me a better person. I hope the best for her and want no harm to come to her. With that being said, I am concerned that I may step back into one of the stages of grief and jeopardize a new relationship that may form and no women deserves that. My questions are: Am I still rebounding or are my desires genuine? How can I avoid regressing back into one of the stages of grief? Is it still too soon? Thanks guys for your opinions.
Philosoraptor Posted March 5, 2012 Posted March 5, 2012 If you truly believe you have worked through the emotional issues and have healed from the past, then go for it. If you notice something negative then take a step back and try again later. Good for you for healing first.
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