Leigh 87 Posted March 5, 2012 Posted March 5, 2012 I am fascinated to hear stories, about people that get cheated on, or people that CHEAT, and then actually stay together with their partners, and make the relationship work? Are there many people who genuinely feel their partners are the love of their lives, and genuinly cheat because they are drunk, and totally 100% regret it, and did not feel any passion for the other person, and feel that the whole thing was 100% a HUGE, awful, mistake? I am very interested to hear stories about this! Obviously, most people cheat, when their relationships are not what they need to be.. HOwever, in some cases, I wonder if: - they love their partners, but it is not a " great" love - they do love their partners, truly and deaply, and want to be with them more than ANYTHING; except, they are selfish jerks who have no self control. - They just do not love their partners; how many people feel that a person CANNOT truly love their partners, if they cheat? I am not worried about cheating particularly, but I have fallen in love very deaply with my boyfriend, and although i would walk away, personally, without question, I DO wonder. I wonder because; I would definately leave it it were me, however, i would tell them that if they truly loved me to the extent where they just wanted me THAT badly... I would leave, get on with my life, but if they were still heart broken months down the track, and they demonstrated that it would be a very,. very long time before they could stop wanting me and loving me... I suppose I would consider taking them back: but never right away. After all, people fo change. WHat are peoples experiences with cheating and being cheated on? Does it happen often to people where they truly DO love their partners, but are just selfish with NO self control? I am very interested, because I have this switch in me; I simply could not do it. I am too considerate of my boyfriends feelings, and I have a strong sense of integrity I wouldl ike to keep....
strength-abounds Posted March 5, 2012 Posted March 5, 2012 My EW had an affair with my cousin for 2 months and when I told her I knew about it she claimed she was unhappy. We separated and went our ways. As for me, I remained faithful to her and our marriage throughout the separation and subsequent divorce. My faith and moral fiber would not allow me to commit adultery. Hope this helps.
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