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Does anyone have any tips on how to strike up a conversation with a girl that works in a store in the mall? There is a really cute girl who works in this store and I'd like to ask her out on a date.

 

Thanks for the help

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Start by making some innocuous comment on the weather or any subject and try to gauge her reaction.

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Does anyone have any tips on how to strike up a conversation with a girl that works in a store in the mall? There is a really cute girl who works in this store and I'd like to ask her out on a date.

 

Thanks for the help

 

Introduce yourself then ask her out.

 

She's working so when you visit she's pretty much expected to be nice to you thus you may be placing her in an unwanted awkward situation.

 

I find it annoying being indirectly approached as there's the societal expectation that I have to be nice as it'd be rude to not be interested or leave someone asking for help or an opinion. It's deceptive and manipulative using societal expectations of niceness/politeness to have me continue conversing with you until you convey the sexual interest otherwise I'm a b*tch.

 

As well as I like direct approaches as he gets to approach based on appearance & I get to reject based on appearance. While with indirect approaches he gets to approach based on appearance & since I've conversed with him there's the "give him a chance" bs.

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