love90 Posted March 5, 2012 Posted March 5, 2012 I met this guy Josh about two months ago in Asia. After I left asia, he would email and call me regularly. We continued talking for about a month and then he flew 7000 miles to see me in England. He spent a week with me and made me really happy. We visited lots of places and dined out everyday. Josh met my friends, took me to a musical and to the movies. He bought me a some cute gifts and they were my favorite color. After our amazing adventures, it seemed like he was slowly pulling himself away from me. He wasnt calling me as frequently. When I asked him if he was still interested, he would say yes. Why? if his actions spoke otherwise? He stopped calling and when I asked him why he lost interest, he would deny losing interest. I eventually told him I had it with his behaviour and ended things. After about a week, I started to miss him and decided to call him. He answered and we laughed about some of the adventures we had in England. I asked him if he missed me and he said yes. That's all. I don't feel he is interested anymore, but he's trying to be nice so we are on good terms. I wish I knew why he stopped? Did I do something wrong?
Author love90 Posted March 5, 2012 Author Posted March 5, 2012 Does anyone understand what he feels? Why is he behaving this way? Should I keep trying?
Mme. Chaucer Posted March 5, 2012 Posted March 5, 2012 No, I don't think you should keep trying, I think he was down for an adventure and you guys shared a great one. But I don't think he wants to be in a serious long distance relationship. They're tough and rarely work anyway. Try to be happy about the good times you had and don't feel rejected or bad. It was a good experience. 1
CC12 Posted March 5, 2012 Posted March 5, 2012 I don't think you should keep trying, either. I don't know why he started pulling away from you, but once he did, you seemed to have needed a lot of validation and reassurance. You asked him several times in a short period if he was still interested in you. Then you ended things with him and called him a week later asking if he missed you. Pretty intense. I think you may have come on a bit strong and expected too much from what seems like should have been a fun, casual, little vacation fling. Also I really like the above post and I'm going to quote it so I don't end this a negative note: No, I don't think you should keep trying, I think he was down for an adventure and you guys shared a great one. But I don't think he wants to be in a serious long distance relationship. They're tough and rarely work anyway. Try to be happy about the good times you had and don't feel rejected or bad. It was a good experience.
Falcon25 Posted March 5, 2012 Posted March 5, 2012 2 Things happened. 1. If you had sex, he didn't like it with you. Maybe you were bad at it, odor, didn't do what he wanted, or you just didn't put out. 2. This one is it, in my opinion. He already has a girl, is or getting married. And lied to you about it. Try to date someone less than 25 miles away. May help you figure out his interest level.
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