You ARE better off alone

[Glove_slap]

It is true that love plays an important part in our lives, if it didn't would the human race even survive? That being said however you should never make love a priority for yourself as people are constantly coming and going in our lives. We all want specific things during our time on earth, whether it's to be successful and make lots of money, being famous, travelling around the world or even just party and have a great time. There are just some things we consciously make decisions of as an individual and chances are that your ex (or the person that brought you here to seek answers) is their own individual self. No matter how "irrational" or "stupid" their actions were like rebounding or cheating (yikes) after a long term relationship you HAVE to understand and EVENTUALLY ACCEPT that there are things in life that interest them, that there are things in life that they want to accomplish, that there are things in life that sadly you couldn't provide for them but that doesn't give you any reason to beat yourself up because because you're just an individual and as an individual there are things that he/she couldn't provide for you as well.

 

Just because a relationship between two people no longer really exists it doesn't mean that love itself disappeared along with it.

 

Yes it does get lonely and you never really forget that person and chances are they never really forget you as well but you should thank and forgive them because ultimately they are giving you the chance to find happiness when they know they couldn't provide you with happiness WHILE STILL BEING HAPPY THEMSELVES. Your ex's are people too and they deserve that chance to be happy as much as do you, even if you really do know that what they're doing is wrong (like my story) they still deserve that chance, that same exact chance that the two of you took together. I know its hard but as life goes on days turn to years and the hurts of today eventually become distant memories.

 

I'm saying all this as a person that has gone through the worst of the worst (not trying to undermine anyone). I know how almost all of you feel but take it from me, you ARE better off alone. Focus on yourself, build your future, forget your ex and love life.