headsashed Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 Its been a little while since i post on here so hello everyone,hope ur all doing well. Things between me and my ex/gf have been pretty ok since we decided to try again,the odd little argument etc but nothing major, she even invited me to a weekend away with her and some of her friends from work which im looking forward to. We havent really done much together if im being honest though,we have either been at her house or mine which isnt good when its all we have done,i have invited her out etc but she just says no and then we goto either house. We need to do things together,we have been out for 1 meal and the cinema once. I dont mind the relaxing part at all,i just want to do more, i understand she has been working alot recently so its not bothered me when she has wanted to have time on her own, or even with friends. That is the good side i suppose so here is the bad side. Yesterday was her day off so i left her to do her own stuff while i had to deal with my stuff, she txt me being all fine etc and she could tell i wasnt in the best of moods, before i got the chance to tell her why i wasnt in the best of moods she just said im moody cos she hasnt come to see me,and believe me,it wasnt, it was something personal, i did tell her about it but she started going on 1,i told her i was fed up of what had happend yesterday and then she was like "if your fed up now how would you feel if we split up and your parents do move away" .. I told her im not gonna talk about that and ill deal with it if it ever happens. Her next txt said " you need to stop telling people we are back together because its nothing to do with anyone else and i said im still working on us so i wouldnt say we were back togther" ..That bit confused me because 5 mins before she said something about if we split up lol...Btw ive not told anyone anything lol,people see us together all the time,thats how people know. She went on to say that it feels like too much has happend,when i asked what she meant she said "just like we have been through too much now,im trying to build us up again but i dont know" .. That txt to me means she is considering breaking up,i just told her we can talk about it the next day as i was in bed and had to be up early. Today she has been txting me ok,she called before work but seemed quiet,i asked if anything was wrong and she said no,obviousley there was, 1 thing that did get me was a male co worker was txting her which i dont mind but as i went to sit at the side of her she locked her phone and put it down,like she was hiding something, i asked her what they was on about and she said just "sh*t", so i asked why she hid her phone like she did,she just said she didnt,im probably looking too much into that but its how she hid it as soon as i sat at the side of her. She then went to work,early too,gave me a kiss and said cya. Im actually confused cos its like im getting mixed vibes from her,we have been fine recently until last night and today with the phone. It is the time of the month for her and she usually does get moody at this time but i dunno,im starting to question things,am i right to question things or am i just being stupid? posotive and negative comments are welcome lol,i know im not perfect and have probably done wrong things already.
Philosoraptor Posted March 5, 2012 Posted March 5, 2012 What issues were fixed in the time apart? Still seems like a pile of childish games and assumptions made without clear communication.
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