The other woman

[Pipa]

I need guy's opinions on this one. My boyfriend has been having an affair with a girl that works with him.. I just don't get why does he not leave me for her. Why does he stay with me. I just don't get it. If he already loves her why not just go to here but he stays with me. Why do men do this. If anyone can give me a reason of some sort.

[Mme. Chaucer]

Um … there are not going to be different answers than you got on the other one. He is having his cake and eating it too. You are helping him do it. It's cushy for him. Simple.

[TaraMaiden]

......I just don't get why does he not leave me for her. Why does he stay with me. I just don't get it. ....

 

That's not the question .

the question is -

 

WHY THE HELL HAVEN'T YOU KICKED HIM TO THE KERB - !!??!

[standtall]

I just don't get why does he not leave me for her. Why does he stay with me. Why do men do this. If anyone can give me a reason of some sort.

 

Sex with 2 different women anytime he wants..period. If you think it is for any other reason, that is because you're female and will never understand.

[PinkInTheLimo]

This man is a very weak man without a spine, who can't be alone. S for him it's better to get attention from 2 women than get it from 1 woman. The more attention he gets the less time he has to spend alone with just his miserable self as company. That's something this immature man is very afraid of.

 

Also he knows you for a longer time and knows what you offer. He does not know that about the other woman.

 

He is a typical example of the cake-eater and he will continue to eat his cake until you end the relationship with him.

[nofool4u]

Pipa, its because your bf is a cake eater.

 

He gets away with this because neither you or his OW will dump his worthless ass. As long as you allow him to treat you like crap, he will.