bamaguy20 Posted June 8, 2004 Posted June 8, 2004 you all know my story.................why do i feel like i cant meet anyone..i wanna meet another girl so bad, and try an dshare something with someone else that i shared wiht my ex girfriend....im only 20 yeras old and in college..i know i have so much ahead..or so im told..but deep down i feel like although this was my first real love.....this will be the only one i will ever have...i feel like im going to lead a very long lonely life...
sweetie7 Posted June 8, 2004 Posted June 8, 2004 I feel the same exact way. I just got done having a long tear filled chat with my ex and now I feel even worse. I was w/ him for 3 years and everything was perfect. All he can say is that something in him changed. I never pressured him into commitment-he constantly talked about forever and how happy he was with me. Anyway, I don't think I will ever meet anyone either and if I do, they will never compare to him. He had very few flaws and was the most respectful, giving, sensitive man I have ever known. Why did my first have to be the best? I wish I could give you some good advice but I'm searching for some myself. I'm sick of "you'll get over this and in the end it will make you so much stronger" that's BS.
rd1978 Posted June 8, 2004 Posted June 8, 2004 let me say this i am in the same situation 5 years and she kind of lost it,,, You cant go find someone.... you shouldnt be on a hunt to find anyone,, itll happen when you least expect it.....And you have to be ready so you wont hurt anyone else.. time does amazing things.....And i saw a comment { why did my first have to be the best } you dont know there hasnt been a second,, but i TOTALLY know where your coming from i love my ex very much and i think about her all the time,, but as time seems to go on as i think about her its more of a faded memory,, its only been like 6 weeks,, you need to look at this situation as your moving on,,, if you end up working things out then thats a bonus ,, if you still want it at that point,, but if not then your in a better position as far as getting over them Believe me i felt the same way in the begining as you 2.. and i still think that way sometimes but jut believe me { give it time } it sucks it really does
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