Trying so hard not to break NC..

[nick d]

I'm trying so hard not to break NC right now! I just miss her so much!!!

[jassib]

i'm like you i'm trying too, but i feel confidence in NC been 1 month and 20 days since the 3rd break, before the 3rd break at 31/12/2011 i broke the NC i send msg then chatted and after 10 days she broke up again now i am getting so confident in NC i will not contact her and waiting for a step of change to fix what she did not like about me "getting a good job" i will fix my self first then the NC will be so effective, then to get social and try to let her know we are social again.

then she will start ask her self what is going on with him he forgot me then if you are her back up plan she will start recalculating her position again trust NC

[Cmac]

Don't do it. It never helps, it'll only make you feel worse afterwards.

[mymission]

Me too! Its so hard. Everything reminds me of him. Everything!

[Numb79]

Dont break NC. In the end it is not worth it. If the person really wanted to reconcile then they would reach out to you. I know its hard to not think about it but you have to do your best. Your Ex is doing what is best for them..... and you should be doing the same.

They could be struggling with the decision... and maybe they are not. Who knows!! But that is not any of your concern. Your only concern is you! You need to look after yourself.... if you don't look after yourself, who else will!? Take care of yourself.... and have faith that everything happens for a reason. You were SOMEBODY before this person came into your life.... and you are still SOMEBODY without this person. Tell yourself that every morning if you have to!! I AM SOMEBODY!!!