maylis Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 Just curious as to why some people have chose to hide that information? I appreciate any responses.
Author maylis Posted March 4, 2012 Author Posted March 4, 2012 Not wanting to ruin the 3am "booty call" situation. ouch, appreciate your honesty!
sid3 Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 Although I don't talk to this particular ex , if I did, I'd keep it on the DL because I plan on dating her friend
Author maylis Posted March 4, 2012 Author Posted March 4, 2012 Although I don't talk to this particular ex , if I did, I'd keep it on the DL because I plan on dating her friend yikes. well, i know that isn't my situation. nor is the one above but thank you for your honesty as well!
juliebijoux Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 Because when my ex found out about the first guy that I dated after him, he found my date on facebook and messaged him that he would beat him up. My ex is 30 btw. Guess who never talked to me again....
Author maylis Posted March 4, 2012 Author Posted March 4, 2012 Because when my ex found out about the first guy that I dated after him, he found my date on facebook and messaged him that he would beat him up. My ex is 30 btw. Guess who never talked to me again.... wow, ok so an unstable ex, I can relate to that one actually!
Star Gazer Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 Because I hate him and don't want him knowing a damn thing about my life. Because he still has feelings for me, and although I have totally moved on, I still care about his feelings and don't want to hurt him by flaunting. Because I'm rebounding/still want my ex and don't want him thinking I'm unavailable. Just a few possibilities.
Tuzie13 Posted March 4, 2012 Posted March 4, 2012 In possible hopes if the current relationship didn't work out, then the Ex would be a backup
Author maylis Posted March 4, 2012 Author Posted March 4, 2012 Because i didnt want to hurt him. There would have been no way for him to find out eventually though?
Author maylis Posted March 4, 2012 Author Posted March 4, 2012 Because I hate him and don't want him knowing a damn thing about my life. Because he still has feelings for me, and although I have totally moved on, I still care about his feelings and don't want to hurt him by flaunting. Because I'm rebounding/still want my ex and don't want him thinking I'm unavailable. Just a few possibilities. Thanks for your honesty. For the second one - there would have been no way for him to find out the truth? I think my situation is somewhere between the second and last one. Hmmm
Author maylis Posted March 4, 2012 Author Posted March 4, 2012 In possible hopes if the current relationship didn't work out, then the Ex would be a backup Thank you for your honesty
smokey bear Posted March 5, 2012 Posted March 5, 2012 There would have been no way for him to find out eventually though? Initially it was because i had moved on and didnt want to hurt him, in hindsight now, it was because i wasnt over him and actually wanted him back several months later, at the time i would never have went back. Subconsious acting really
shayla Posted March 5, 2012 Posted March 5, 2012 Because after the way he treated me, it's none of his damn business. He ended up finding out anyway since he was strongly confronted for sending me a virus after my father died. If that hadn't happened, he would have never found out.
veggirl Posted March 5, 2012 Posted March 5, 2012 I have never done that. I don't keep in regular contact with any exes--I certainly don't seek them out to inform them of my relationship status. But, I would NOT EVER hide it from an ex. If my BF was purposely and actively hiding our relationship from an ex, he would become MY ex. How disrespectful. How shady.
Author maylis Posted March 5, 2012 Author Posted March 5, 2012 Initially it was because i had moved on and didnt want to hurt him, in hindsight now, it was because i wasnt over him and actually wanted him back several months later, at the time i would never have went back. Subconsious acting really Yes I think it is rebounding in the case with my ex too. He started dating this girl very quickly, within a week or two of us breaking up.
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